I want to go out and have a good time but I don’t have any friends..
Well I do, but they are far and few between. I have 1 almost an hour away, another hasn’t emailed me yet, and I’m afraid he might have weed so I don’t know if I want to go there anyway…
I wish I could just go to a coffee shop and strike up a conversation with random people, but I’m not that big of a social butterfly. I can always hang out with my mom, which is cool, but it would be nice to have more friends.
I don’t go to school and I don’t have a job (technically I have both being a student employee 7 hours away (I am home for summer break)).
I was thinking about doing some casual dating while I’m here. I would meet the guys online, I’ve done it before. But I am still dealing with emotional strife over a bad break up a month ago. So I’m not sure if that’s a good idea. I would be going back in 3 weeks so it probably wouldn’t go anywhere.. but I’m still not sure.
I just wish I had somewhere to go. People tell me to just hang out at a coffee shop or go to a library, but how often do you talk to random strangers at those places? Really?
I guess I’m asking: How do I find someplace to go (within the context of what I said) and is casual dating a good idea this summer?
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