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What do I do to get over the overwhelming feeling that nobody in the universe cares about me?


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ENAMTHBert offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

why do u need somebody to care for u?

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nefarious offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

I say get over it because if youre always sitting arounf feeling sorry for yourself youre not allowing any new feelings to come forth. stop dwelling and go outside and have a **** picnic. People care about you, but realize they have their own moments of feeling alone… Therefore, you are not alone, and Im sure someone cares about you, but youre just having an off day/week.

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noonelikesaknowitall offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

Usually when I feel like that it is because I am isolating and not talking to people enough giving my head to much time to **** with me.

Then I want them to make the effort to show they care but it is my responsibility to make the effort!

nefarious offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

If you want to talk to someone do it, if you miss someone call them…
Let a friend know how youre feeling, no one is psychic.

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 56 minutes after post)

B.t.w.: For whom do YOU care?

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ENAMTHBert offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 28 minutes after post)

His \ her question shows that he cares a lot.

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 31 minutes after post)

ENAMTHBert wrote:
His \ her question shows that he cares a lot.

You mean, he/she about him/her, right?
;-)

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ENAMTHBert offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 36 minutes after post)

Zirbel wrote:

ENAMTHBert wrote:
His \ her question shows that he cares a lot.

You mean, he/she about him/her, right?
;-)

seems to me he looking for emotion so i guess he she care .

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 5 minutes after post)

ENAMTHBert wrote:

Zirbel wrote:
ENAMTHBert wrote:
His \ her question shows that he cares a lot.

You mean, he/she about him/her, right?
;-)

seems to me he looking for emotion so i guess he she care .

Of course, she/he is looking for.
But: For to become you have to act first, means to spend — instead of sitting back and doing nothing, and waiting for miracles.
And it seems there is nobody to whom she/he is giving something.

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ENAMTHBert offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Reached point : she he care ….
rest its could ONLY YOUR OWN Personal answer to her his question that’s she he Wait for it .
But Being she he asked does not mean that she he did not try .

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10 months, 3 weeks ago (22 hours, 30 minutes after post)

Thanks guys. I feel okay now, but yeah not too loved/comforted. I constantly live with the feeling that I care for people so much more than they do for me, and I guess I need to snap out of that, stop caring so much in the first place and stop feeling sorry for myself.

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

my boyfriend and i were talking about something similar lately. i told him that id he died, i know i would find it hard to go on without him, and he feels the same way. but i told them if one of us does ever leave earth first, i’d want to person left behind to make it their mission to truly positively influence someone in the world. to really make a difference. sometimes we feel alone, we feel unloved, or we feel purposeless. you should make it your mission to find someone and become a positive influence in their lives. god knows we all need it. you become a part of something bigger, something good, and something empowered. if you ever reach a point in your life where you feel like you’ve lost everything you had worth loving, you need a reason to keep fighting. find something new to love.

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