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do you think not having a loving family, is a reflection on you as a person?
my mother and father (divorced since i was a child) are superficial and selfish. my grandparents, i have to see, are the same. i thought at first they (grandparents) gave unconditional love, but this is not the case.
i would like to just move away and never have anymore contact with them, but i cannot due to the fact that i do not want to cause them unhappiness.
and lately, i have found myself becoming more bitter and angry. i even had an angry dream last night where it seemed that everyone in my life were selfish and were just causing my troubles without regard for my welfare or that of my daughter.
sidenote: my mother yesterday just left her husband, he was supposedly mentally abusive and potentially dangerous. she has asked to borrow money from me to purchase a car. and had requested that i get a po box here in this state so that she can tell her ex-husband that she is living here, and her mail would be forwarded here. she lives in another state. it’s always been the case, that she has considered what SHE could get out of our relationship. As a child, it was always about her. i agreed to both. but wish that she would just disappear from my life, i am sorry to say. and do feel guilty about my feelings.
how would you advice that i move past this?
i am a adult woman and a single mother to a baby girl.
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