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Honestly, how do you forget someone whom you love (not lust) and they fell the same but are afraid that going further will make things worse?

This has been eating me away ever since a conversation with the person about two months ago. It’s gotten so bad mentally for me that I’ve wanted to end my life. Help.

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

You don’t. :( Just resolve to love them forever, and be happy about it.

You have to stop obsessing, too. Find something else to think about. Listen to music they didn’t like, go places they hated, spend time with people who never knew them. Just slowly move away from whatever life you shared.

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

“The Golden Rule to Get Over a Relationship Break Up”:
http://ezinearticles.com/?The-Golden-…

“How to Get Over a Relationship · You must pre-live the future, not re-live the past”:
http://www.personal-development.com/c…

“11 Ways to Get Over One Relationship And Start Looking For The Next”:
http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/11…

“10 Tips to Mend a Broken Heart”:
http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives…

“Healing a Broken Heart”:
http://www.drphil.com/articles/articl…

“How to Get Over a Break Up Fast and Painlessly”:
http://www.bringexbackblog.com/278/ho…

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