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Is it possible to be traumatized by something that should be completely normal and does not affect others?

Such as something that happens every day and is perfectly normal and as common as eating. I feel like my brain emotionally reacts very wrongly or something to these situations sometimes. I’m just wondering if it’s possible.

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

I think so, but I think it happens because you relate a simple everyday thing to something else traumatic.

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Mostly such a normal event is linked in your mind with a similar one of the past (even if you don’t remember the situation), and this bygone one have had a traumatizing effect which no comes up again and again.

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trentlover20 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

I think it depends on what you mean exactly. I have a similar thing about certain things that I see like a grey miserable day on a beach, or when a camera can show you what the world looks like upside down from someone who’s just jumped out of a sky diving plane’s point of view, it makes me very uncomfortable.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

I have arachnophobia since I’ve been a litte girl, now, I’m 18, but even looking at a spider makes my heart wanna stop beating, I can’t stand this, while my friends don’t have the same thing, they may dislike spiders, but they’re not that afraid of those beasts .. I want ton know if there’s anything I can do to be stronger, and not act like a crazy just by seeing a little spider

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

asmae_des wrote:
I have arachnophobia since I’ve been a litte girl, now, I’m 18, but even looking at a spider makes my heart wanna stop beating, I can’t stand this, while my friends don’t have the same thing, they may dislike spiders, but they’re not that afraid of those beasts .. I want ton know if there’s anything I can do to be stronger, and not act like a crazy just by seeing a little spider

My sister has the same thing she won’t even sleep in her bedroom if she knows there’s a spider in there, sometimes I see spiders (small ones) in the bathroom and I have to get rid of them before she goes in there otherwise she will literally freak out. I knew a girl who actually passed out just from looking at a spider, they’re very creepy it’s all those legs and how quick they move I think :/

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