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Is long, wavy, black hair ugly?

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My whole life, I have had (natural) long black, wavy hair. I have always been self-conscious of it and feel like it’s so hideous and have tried changing it but it always ends up looking bad… Do guys and girls find this hideous?…

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Absolutely not, don’t waste another thought on it if you can help it, it truly is a waste of your time.

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WritetheHeroine offline Verified User (4 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Not at all. That sounds quite lovely.

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ENAMTHBert offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

No , why u think its awful?

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11 months, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

I don’t know. It has just always been the most self-conscious thing to me ):
I noticed that most guys and girls always shoot for blondes and I guess it has built up over the years of being picked on. I don’t have the typical blonde hair, blue eyes and skinny body that is the ‘hot’ thing everyone goes for. I have black hair, semi-pale skin and am short (5 feet) and am curvy. I have always been self-conscious about everything, but mostly my hair. It just bothers me. Everytime I try and bleach it though, it either looks HORRIBLE on me or just damages beyond belief. The reason I posted this today, was because I tried bleaching it today and it ending up not bleaching evenly but in spots, so I had to go back to black which just pushed me to tears in the end.

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ENAMTHBert offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

It would never be form problem but lock.

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Lamia5 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 16 hours after post)

No.
I myself have long, wavy hair, not necessarily black but really dark and i’m happy with it.
you should be happy with the way your hair looks. And if you really think your hairs bad, google people with worse hair and you’ll probably feel twice as good about yourself i’m sure.

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