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Ok so I’m a sucker for punishment.

It’s been 6 months my girlfriend is finally moving down in a month.

I hate to sound selfish or pathetic but here goes….

So things aren’t any better really, but since March things are have been really bad…she won’t let me go,
but can’t tell me she wants me either. she has definately made her mind up that she can easily move back to
Jhb should we not workout in Dbn. - had to be there to understand.

I really have put heart in soul into this, it hasn’t been easy and this heartstring game she’s been playing
is affecting everything. My concentration, my performance at work (and being in sales taht’s a cock up), when we are together we have difficulty conversing…she spends every opportunity on her blackberry, but when we’re apart doesn’t want to be rude and won’t chat with me.

I paid for her to be with me for my birthday,she says she was planning to do so, 2 friends accompanied her
and the whole weekend was about her and her friends…it was as though her her coming to see me was an honor!

She made no real effort to spend time with me…just hung out with her friends and family…wtf is wrong with me….why can’t i just let her go….it’s ruining me

And now that’s she’s moving down i fear she will punish me for her missing her friends…apart from the fact that in the last 4 months she hasn’t posted a single photo with me in it….hasn’t mentioned me, I may as well not exist in her life…..but she still won’t let me go either!

Please,….someone be logical cus i wanna put my car into a wall!

i love her, but is this how love is meant to make you feel

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