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Am I a bad person because of this?

??? Ok, so I really liked this guy and I told him I liked him and it turned out we liked each other…. This was on the last week of school and then he moved….. We still talk to each other and stuff it’s just we aren’t that close and it doesent feel like we’re exactly “together”…… And I have always liked this other guy and we are great friends now and now he REALLY likes me…. And I like him…. Does this make me a bad person??? Should I break up with the guy I’m technically with now???

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Tictactomm offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Edmonton, AB, CA | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

The heart wants what it wants. You are allowed to make a choice and not feel guilty about it. NOT making a choice, and stringing both along, well that’s something else.

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sphericalfal offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Tictactomm wrote:
The heart wants what it wants. You are allowed to make a choice and not feel guilty about it. NOT making a choice, and stringing both along, well that’s something else.

Agreed. Long distant relationships aren’t easy either, believe me I’ve just come out of one. Sounds like you already kinda made your mind up though. But if you do choose the other lad, you have to be able to deal with not having your current partner any more.

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

You aren’t a bad person…you aren’t doing anything wrong, yet, I assure you. But you should choose one and stick to the one you choose.

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