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a few days ago, i realized i really “like” my best friend.

a lot of my other friends have said he likes me and i’ve brought it up in a jokingly manner and he always talks to me about how he wants to hook up with people this summer and girls that he’s liked, which none have worked out. he’s helped me through really tough situations with my family and when he asked me about guys in my life, i told him none really worked out because most of the time no one really liked me back and he was like, “what’s not to like?” and complimented me and whatnot. this was all before i realized i “liked” him. but recently i’ve been talking to him and he either doesn’t text back or gives short answers, and he also couldn’t hang when we were supposed to. all of this has been within the last two-three weeks and he’s also working a lot and playing in this really important music event and i don’t know if he’s just busy or doesn’t “like” me anymore. i also really wanna ask him out, but we’ve been friends for awhile. HELP! what do i do?

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what do i do?

a few days ago, i realized i really “like” my best friend. a lot of my other friends have said he likes me and i’ve brought it up in a jokingly manner and he always talks to me about how he wants to hook up with people this summer and girls that he’s liked, which none have worked out. he’s helped me through really tough situations with my family and when he asked me about guys in my life, i told him none really worked out because most of the time no one really liked me back and he was like, “what’s not to like?” and complimented me and whatnot. this was all before i realized i “liked” him. but recently i’ve been talking to him and he either doesn’t text back or gives short answers, and he also couldn’t hang when we were supposed to. all of this has been within the last two-three weeks and he’s also working a lot and playing in this really important music event and i don’t know if he’s just busy or doesn’t “like” me anymore. i also really wanna ask him out, but we’ve been friends for awhile. HELP! what do i do?

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