work help: my bf has found videos and pics of me!

saulwilliam

my bf has found videos and pics of me!

! ive left my laptop at his house when i went to work because his is broken. he went on my documents and found a video of me on cam pulling faces and pics of me posing. im so embarrassed now i dont wanna go back to his but i had already arranged it so i would stay over tonight. dont know how im gonna act around him now

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white_callavswhite_l 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Don’t say anything, if he doesn’t ask it didn’t happen. If he asks make a little fun of yourself. Say things like “I was trying to be sexy, obviously” and wiggle your eyebrows in a silly way. When he thinks you find it funny he’ll see the humour in it too instead of being embarrassed by you. Not that it’s something to be embarrassed about anyway.

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nolateri 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Relax! Relax! Relax! This is not as big of a deal as it seems….but I totaly understand how you are feeling at this moment….he must have told you he saw this for you to know correct?

I bet he got a kick out of it and thought it was funny in a cute way……you are going to feel embarrased so just roll with it. If he brings it up when you get there just start laughing and say oh my gosh I’m so embarrased. And let it go.

He might tease you a little so again roll with it and just laugh.

If he doesn’t say anything at all make the comment when the right time comes and say “I totaly forgot about that being on ther and I’m so embarrased you found them”.

Or you could start throwing things at him throw a fit stomped your feet and say ” I can’t believe you would snoop on my computrt” LOL JUST KIDDING.

Trust me you aren’t the first or the last to have this happen to.

Even guys have done things like this…..it is not a deal breaker what so ever. Just a little embarrasing.

You both will laugh about this for awhile……and I seriously think he is going to get a good laugh out of it and think you are cute…..

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Let us know what happens.

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Siren 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

lol it could have been worse, just see the funny side of things

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saulwilliam 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

thanks you for your replies, your all right could of been worse, just over reacted a bit, ive told him i used to take a load of pics then choose the best one to use a profile pic, or if i was talking to someone i would send them a pic if they asked, which is the truth, and as for the video i was 17 (im 19) an just trying out my new cam at the time. he was just laffing at me lol

thanks again for your replies, help.com and everyone on it had helped me again not to stress out lol

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nolateri 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Thats awesome! Thanks to you as well….you have started my day with a BiG Smile and laughter!

Soooooo are you going to share the pic’s with us here???????? lol

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saulwilliam 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

haha yerh im starting to see the funny side to it myself, and no! as soon as i get on that laptop im deleting everything! hahaha :-)

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nolateri 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

Thanks for sharing I think it is really cute!

You probably made his day! I know you made mine…..lol

saulwilliam wrote:
haha yerh im starting to see the funny side to it myself, and no! as soon as i get on that laptop im deleting everything! hahaha :-)

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The Sherlockian 39 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

No worries . . . but you should smack him for snooping through your computer!

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IrAdler 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (5 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Even married people do such thing without the other’s knowledge so you have nothing to worry about. Don’t delete them.

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