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For the past thirty five years of my life I began to realize that the efforts of living a peaceful and thankful life is all about forgiveness.

Before the age of ten years old, I suffered to playground head injuries. The second head injury was more devastating than the first. With the recent influx of concussion injuries in contact sports primarily football injuries, has given more awareness to the long term effects of concussions. In time I have learned to deal with these occurances. I was bonbarded with negativity from my own family that I would have difficulties in just graduating from high school. With time, patience, focus and dedication, I earned a partial scholarship in track and field to Ohio University. I felt that I was able to overcome any obstacle that was ahead of me. During my junior year in college on our Easter break, I did a favor for a friend who wanted to be with his family during the break. I borrowed a friends car for the day for the trip. On the way back to school I fell asleep while driving. The car was totaled, but for some miraacle reason I was able to walk away from the incident without a scratch. Four years after my first accident I was involved in another accident also during Easter Sunday. From the, information that I have read about post traumatic stress disorders, I have found life to be quite difficult to move into a professional career when I constantly experience flashbacks that I didnt realize that I experience. In two thousand and one while playing basketball with friends, I suffered a serious knee injury (ruptured patella tendon, fracture knee cap)which hinders my ability to be the person I have always set out to be. In two thousand and five, I moved to Orlando Florida to be closer to my family. Professionals use the term workaholics in the same sequence as someone who is addicted to alcohol or drugs. Hard work and effort usually pays off in the long run. In my case I have been fired from four jobs in the last six years. I have found this to be my most challenging situation outside of all the things in my past.

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

Life is very precarious. Your life can be snuffed out in an instant. If we’re lucky, we survive with just a few scars and some injuries.

My teammate in Afghanistan was just injured in a rocket attack. He is being sent home to get medical treatment. But he wanted to return to duty. He could have curled up into a ball and given in to the trauma. But his mindset was such that he just saw himself as hard to kill and he doesn’t want to give up.

Teddy Roosevelt was giving a speech when a would-be assassin shot him in the chest. He put a handkerchief over the entry wound and continued to speak. He wouldn’t seek medical treatment until after he had delivered the speech he came to deliver!

Don’t think of yourself as fragile. Think of yourself as one tough survivor! Yes, you can go to a counselor, but the simple fact is that life is tough and you’ll take some hard knocks if you’re really playing the game of life!

I am exposed to the risk of injury or death every day. Today I was “outside the wire” and a group of Afghans began gathering around me, and one of them could have been Taliban. But I continued with my mission. If I get whacked, I get whacked–but the Taliban that gets me will have to be d**ned good, because I’m a regular Doc Holliday with my Beretta 9mm, and I don’t think any of the Taliban are faster than I am!

But nobody lives forever. My faith in God sustains me in the face of danger. I, too, have had my share of injuries, but I feel blessed by our Lord to be alive.

As long as I am drawing breath, I know that I still have a part of the Divine Plan to fulfill!

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

You’ve been through a lot. I’m so glad you seem to be able to stay strong and positive. Keep on keeping on, your wonderful attitude will surely be rewarded. :)

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