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getting ready for a party but i dont want to go now

i wish i liked parties more but i just dont feel like going now. i miss my ex, i would make an excuse to get out of it but i always say i’ll go then make an excuse, i dont think i can do that anymore.

plus i have work at 6am and i really dont want it to be a late one, ive never been to this guys house before, or partied with anyone there.

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Chi The Cat 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

My advice is to just go, and if you don’t like it you can always leave. You don’t have to feel any obligation to stay once you get there. If you aren’t having fun, then just tell everyone you were happy to see them and go back home. It’s not that big of a deal, I’m going to a club tomorrow and even though I am scared (mostly because it’s in downtown denver and cities and city traffic scares the hell out of me) I can always leave if I don’t like it. But at lest I tried it, it’s a win-win.

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Anonymous #
10 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

because you don’t go to parties you’ll never meet other people
nobody comes in if you don’t go out, it’s that easy

izzitd 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

I must agree here..sitting around isn’t gunna help you get over your ex. Going out and meeting others will. Just set the boundaries. You know when you need to be in bed so you aint a zombie at work…let people know that from the get go. They will appreciate you showing up even if you have to dip out early. Most working folks will completely understand.

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verge 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

I understand not wanting to go to a social event, but keeping promises you make to your friends and demonstrating your affection for them by going to events that they want you to go to is a good idea if only because when you are no longer able to put up with all of that, they’ll seek you out and make sure that you are well because they remember that you were a friend to them. There are actually more reasons why going is a good idea, like that you might miss out on something special if you don’t go, or have more trouble getting over your ex than you would have if you’d gone and made some new friends.

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Anonymous #
10 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

this post fits with this other one of you: http://help.com/post/553248-i-so-desp…
seems that you’re desperately lazy

verge 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Dear Anonymous person,
Neither of those posts have much to do with laziness, but I suppose it was nice of you to try to contribute.

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BuckingFastard (J.N) 36 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

If this is the guy that stabbed someone, i would think twice about going at all.

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garbanzo 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Go! Maybe you’ll meet the partner of your dreams at this party and get over your ex!

I often feel the same way.. I’m in a long-distance relationship and sometimes its hard to want to get out and party without that special someone…

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Siren 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 27 minutes after post)

BuckingFastard (J.N) wrote:
If this is the guy that stabbed someone, i would think twice about going at all.

yeah it is and i decided not to go

garbanzo wrote:
Go! Maybe you’ll meet the partner of your dreams at this party and get over your ex!

I often feel the same way.. I’m in a long-distance relationship and sometimes its hard to want to get out and party without that special someone…

i know everyone who is going anyway and im not attracted to any of them. plus i was a tad scared my drink would be spiked and the guy would try it on with me. they guy whos hosting did say he was gonna be drugged up to the max.

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BuckingFastard (J.N) 36 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 15 hours after post)

It sounds like a good job you didn’t go!

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Chi The Cat 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 15 hours after post)

Drugs!? No wonder you didn’t want to go! This isn’t a confidence issue, this is logical!

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