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Feeling down.

I don’t know what it is today, but I just am feeling kind of blue. I don’t feel like doing anything, but I also feel bored. I recently met this guy that I’m into and I called him earlier and he invited me to a party. I haven’t heard back from him about the details yet, even though it’s supposed to start now. I guess that’s kind of bumming me out too. Whenever he does end up calling me back, I don’t know what to do…I’m feeling quiet and not very outgoing, and am not sure I’ll be able to be very social at the party, especially since he’s the only I know and I don’t even know him very well. Ugh I wish I could just snap myself out of it but I just don’t know how..

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lairm offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Sheridan, OR, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I’m sorry you’re feeling down. I feel that way too sometimes and just don’t hang out with people because of it.

This may not be your reason but it is mine. Sometimes I feel insignificant. I am learning I need to understand my significance in the world much more clearly so that no matter what anyone says or does that could make me feel down I will understand it is just a moment and says nothing about me. I can know my worth deeper than any moment.

I am almost there. I am starting to really believe it.

Allow yourself that time between when you start searching and when you find it. Also, know that everything is dynamic. There is no flag somewhere you are trying to get to. It is a path. I am choosing to walk down the path of knowing I am significant. I know more so about this today than I did yesterday and I will know more tomorrow than I do today. That is success.

Hugs!

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