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life is unfair
that’s life

But for YOUR life the rule is:
“Life is what you make it. Always has been, always will be.”
(Eleanor Roosevelt, 1901 – 1962)

“Perspectives on life!”:
http://www.paulabrandantlcsw.com/?p=185

“4 Effective Practices for Gaining Perspective”:
http://www.thechangeblog.com/4-effect…

“Keeping Perspective When Life Smacks You Up”:
http://www.earthlingcommunication.com…

“Meaning of life”:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meaning_…

Well, those are a lot of questions with complicated answers, mainly to do with politics and power…
There is no reason to life, innocent people get taken away while others remain because they are ill or live in a place/are brought around warfare or bad healthcare or for many horrible unfair reasons and good people take their own lives because they feel the world has gone to sh*t.

Once you truly realise that there is no reasoning there is no why, there is no ‘point’ to life, only then can you start actually living. Once you’ve accepted the meaninglessness of life, you realise that this gives you power, you are the one who gives your life meaning, you are the one who interprets the world you were born into, you choose what to believe and how to love and live.

life is unfair and it is life but i dont get why people cant be happy with what they have.
thats very true Zirbel plus its not a reherseal

Anonymous wrote:
life is unfair and it is life but i dont get why people cant be happy with what they have.
thats very true Zirbel plus its not a reherseal

It’s not a rehearsal, yes, it’s the one and only first performance, premiere. ;-)

[quote CogitoErgoSum]Well, those are a lot of questions with complicated answers, mainly to do with politics and power…
There is no reason to life, innocent people get taken away while others remain because they are ill or live in a place/are brought around warfare or bad healthcare or for many horrible unfair reasons and good people take their own lives because they feel the world has gone to sh*t.

its not just politics and power, its religion as well, having faith leads to so many promblems within society, look at the wars we are fightning and 9/11.

Yes agreed, by politics I mean ’social relations involving authority or power’ which includes religion.

“What is there to live for really?” The opposite of not to live for. You mentioned a few in your post like accumulating unnecessary “wealth” you cannot take with you when you die for instance.

1) Life is crappy becase that’s just what happens. It sucks, no doubt about that, but that’s just the way it is. It just is harder for humanity because we are concious and have a mass amount of painful emotions we cling to.
2) I feel like you do most days.
3) Quantum physics makes me feel better. It made me realize how silly my worries are about life since life is created specifically special for each of us due to things we cannot see that come together that make things we can feel, smell, touch, taste, etc.
4) The movie “a waking life” also helps me feel better about life.

Life doesn’t get better until you start making it better. No one will help you. You are all you have forever. You are born into this world alone and you only have yourself to die with. Make best friends with yourself and figure out ways to help you feel better about life. Help people in need. Voulenteer at hospitals and paint with sick kids. Or at a nursing home and hear amazing stories about back in the day. Or just go outside and smell the air. Go swing and play games. Crash a wedding party and dance to your hearts desire. Be your own hero and do what you need to do to make yourself feel good wiith the time you were given to be alive.

The only time you actually fail, is when you don’t even try. Don’t let the bummer that can be reality get in the way of making you happy.

1) Life is crappy becase that’s just what happens. It sucks, no doubt about that, but that’s just the way it is. It just is harder for humanity because we are concious and have a mass amount of painful emotions we cling to.
2) I feel like you do most days.
3) Quantum physics makes me feel better. It made me realize how silly my worries are about life since life is created specifically special for each of us due to things we cannot see that come together that make things we can feel, smell, touch, taste, etc.
4) The movie “a waking life” also helps me feel better about life.

Life doesn’t get better until you start making it better. No one will help you. You are all you have forever. You are born into this world alone and you only have yourself to die with. Make best friends with yourself and figure out ways to help you feel better about life. Help people in need. Voulenteer at hospitals and paint with sick kids. Or at a nursing home and hear amazing stories about back in the day. Or just go outside and smell the air. Go swing and play games. Crash a wedding party and dance to your hearts desire. Be your own hero and do what you need to do to make yourself feel good wiith the time you were given to be alive.

The only time you actually fail, is when you don’t even try. Don’t let the bummer that can be reality get in the way of making you happy.

live Your life to its fullest, you have no say so in anything else — if you stay cynical and bitter and worryation, you go nowhere — and you walked by your opportunity to make your life better, your choice

life does suck….but you are the controler to your own gears in your head….yourself comes first before anyone…so make you happy and happiness will follow you…KARMA will always be there and no one is perfect so you are going to have stops in your life…just dont dwell on them and cry or learn and move on….cuz its you that is walking and breathing so make that person happy first!