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My boyfriend went to a bachelor party last night.

He told me that all they were doing was playing golf during the day, going out for dinner, going to a baseball game, than going to a pub. The guy getting married is completely against strip clubs, etc, however, a few of the other guys wanted to go to a strip club, so my boyfriend and two friends went to one. I went to a strip club with my boyfriend last year, and he told me that he would feel really uncomfortable going to one without me there and that he wasn’t going to a strip club for the bachelor party. I am not sure how to respond to this.

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Anonymous #
10 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Call him out?

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

All he did was watch, right?…

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10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

yeah, he says he didn’t get a lap dance or anything

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 55 minutes after post)

Does it bother you he went?

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Anonymous #
10 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Yes and no. If he told me ahead of time that they were going to a strip club I wouldn’t care. I think it bothers me because he specifically said that they weren’t going to one, and that he wouldn’t even feel comfortable going to one without me.

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 6 minutes after post)

So he kind of lied to you?

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10 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 12 minutes after post)

Yeah he did

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