I’m not sure how to deal with my ex!
My ex boyfriend is 25 and is not handling our break up very well at all. We dated for about 5 or 6 months, and I made it quite clear that I’m not the relationship type, I was about to start my first year at University too, and I wasn’t eager to give up a lot of my time. He somewhat guilted me into a relationship by crying a lot and being quite pathetic every time I said I wasn’t keen on it. He got quite intense with thoughtful gestures and texts, but would get angry about strange things, such as finding out that I had slept with more people than he had and canceling plans. I broke off the relationship (this was in late March), and was bombarded with texts, sometimes up to 50 a day, all day and all night, ranging from declaring love (which I wasn’t even close to feeling, it was such a casual relationship) to abusing me, to talking about how I would never be happy without him. We work in the same business, and I heard from a mutual friend that he thought I was actually ‘the one’. He wouldn’t stop, so I got somebody else involved who told him to stop, and he did. Yesterday morning, I woke up to texts from him saying he had decided that life wasn’t worth living and that it was ‘a mess that I had created’. I didn’t text him back, but I don’t know what to do. I don’t know how much more of this guys drama I can handle.
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