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My neighbors creepy and mean to his daughter and I feel bad that I don’t hang out with his daughter anymore.
There is a girl down the street from me who is a bit younger than me and a few years ago we were pretty close, we hung out I would draw with sidewalk chalk with her and play games she just learned on the playground at school. I was 3-4 years older than her (i was around 12-15 and she was 9-12) but there are not any kids on our block and we do not live in a good enough neighborhood to where she could safely walk from block to block to get to other places. So one day she asked me to play withe her and I said yes. At this point her dad would be in the house all the time. I saw him around from time to time and he would wave and say hi and that sort of thing if we happened to see each other in passing but the only time he would be outside for any length of time would be to mow his lawn. Once he noticed I was over in his yard though he would always go outside and watch us. at first he would just watch from his porch and then he would circle around us and then he would just stand over my shoulder. All the while making comments on how good my ‘drawings’ were and he would call my doodles masterpieces and say i could be famous and crap like that, completely ignore his daughter and if she asked him to look at her drawing he would literally insult it. and he would go from telling me my drawings were pretty to telling me I was pretty and that I should be a model and the neighborly greetings when we passed by each other turned into him whistling at me and giving me this weird look or him telling me I looked good and it made me extremely uncomfortable. his daughter was allowed to go from corner to corner of our block and I decided that I would only hangout with her at a house further down the street. (and older lady lived there who liked us to draw in her yard while she sat and talked to us) the little girl was down there a lot so I would just go down there with her instead of going to her house. Then her dad started telling her that he wanted her to come home and that I could come. I came back the first couple times but then he started rubbing my shoulders or just lightly grabbing and holding onto my arm(s) and it made me so uncomfortable that I didn’t go back. and I feel bad because I cant hang out with his daughter anymore unless hes there and when I tell her I cant come over her dad tells her “she doesnt want to hang out with you, your young and annoying and she has better things to do” but I don’t, her dads just creepy
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