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So I have this friend…

She’s one of my best friends and can tell how I’m feeling over text. And I’m a girl too. And she has a crush on me. I’m not bothered by that in any judgmental way, but I don’t know if I feel the same way about her. She ends conversations with ‘I love you’ and tells me how much she misses me on a daily basis. I don’t know what to do about it. Do I tell her that I don’t want to be in a relationship or that I just want to be friends? Nothing at all? Help please?

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

Can you tell her, you’rre straight
But would like to remain friends, best friends

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Anime07ghos offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

She already knows I’m straight :\

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

just let her know that you just want to be friends
and anything else would ruin your friendship

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AshLynn offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (59 minutes after post)

Laugh about it. Make sure she knows your not interested but still wanna be her friend. Talk to her about people you think are cute, but try avoiding saying other girls are cute or you’ll send mixed messages. If the I love you’s bother you, tell her it makes you uncomfortable but you appreciate the gesture. Most of all just be honest. She’ll never know how you truly feel if you don’t tell her. Good luck to you!

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