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Do you know if you have money you have many friends…

..if you dont have money they all walk away from you…how you like that????

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lairm offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Sheridan, OR, US | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

That is very possible. It sounds like the people that you were friends with were very needy and you were not a friend to them but an item. A place to get money. When the money dried up, so did they.

Yes, it is easy to find friends who are needy when you have anything in plenty. I know that I am very stable mentally and emotional and this attracts people who are looking for stability. Not always but a lot. I also find myself in company of people who are equally able or better able or learning to be able to be such a way. I always know the ones who were just around because they needed my stability. They disappear the minute I need help, or they judge and are hurtful to me for not being strong. I was a thing to them, some thing they got stability from, not a person.

I’m sorry this happened to you.

Apparently your money is gone now so, here is one friend who still cares about you and would like to be your friend.

Hugs!

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mindhealer offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

If I need money to have friends then I will get money.

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President Awesome:3 offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

some people are like that, those people are not friends worth making. I suggest finding friends that care about you no matter what your financial status is.

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

Then maybe it is good to not have so much money, the people who are left must actually like you.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 9 minutes after post)

Buying friends.Dosn’t sound like real friends.

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MARCHCOC offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

lairmct wrote:
That is very possible. It sounds like the people that you were friends with were very needy and you were not a friend to them but an item. A place to get money. When the money dried up, so did they.

Yes, it is easy to find friends who are needy when you have anything in plenty. I know that I am very stable mentally and emotional and this attracts people who are looking for stability. Not always but a lot. I also find myself in company of people who are equally able or better able or learning to be able to be such a way. I always know the ones who were just around because they needed my stability. They disappear the minute I need help, or they judge and are hurtful to me for not being strong. I was a thing to them, some thing they got stability from, not a person.

I’m sorry this happened to you.

Apparently your money is gone now so, here is one friend who still cares about you and would like to be your friend.

Hugs!

verge wrote:
Then maybe it is good to not have so much money, the people who are left must actually like you.

THANKYOU FOR SEND ME A HUG ..YOU MADE MY DAY..AND FRIEND..

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