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hello i am suffering a complete mental breakdown i

am the same person as before i try and i try and i try to stop loving my husband but i cant and he is leaving i can’t move on…i don’t know what i need..i thought about different things and options..and thought about how am i going to live my life withought him but now i just i feel like i am never going to find anyone..my heart wont allow it..i can’t deal with it anymore..i live in the apartment now that we were meant to live in ..i think this is why its so hard for me..because everything reminds me of him..we moved to sa..adelaide and everything just reminds me of him at the moment..walking past the street i don’t want to bump into them again…should i stay in adelaide/sa or should i move?i am thinking of moving with my parents and staying with them for a while

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

i am the same person as before

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mairamayhear offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

okay..it seems that is the answer i have to leave adelaide sa…
cant stand it anymore..i just cant too many triggers..too much pain..

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

i was there little more than 6 years ago. It’s hard, mine found someone else
Someone who was depressed. Now i don’t even think about him. He’s dead to me.
Yes it hurts, but the show must go on. Is there anything that can keep you
occupied. I still cry at night, being alone, but i'’m not thinking of him
don’t want to be with him

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

Move back with mum & dad, it’s a comfort, like a security blanket
a mother’s love will give you strength

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mairamayhear offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

except i very much love him and i will not stop loving him..i just want to grow my daughter..i used to look at her as our daughter..but i don’t anymore she is mine..and i want to take care of her..i am moving away..

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mairamayhear offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

so i can find peace within myself to take care of her more..i have to…

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mairamayhear offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

thanks..well its decided..

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

i have faith in you,
It’s gonna take time, I know you hate hearing that
i sure did, but it’s true. Concentrate on your daughter
Sending you a Giant Cyber Hug, stand close

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mairamayhear offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (51 minutes after post)

thank you…
funny thing my daughters name is faith*

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (16 hours, 51 minutes after post)

You don’t have to stop loving him. Ever. You just have to start concentrating on yourself and your daughter. Go live with your parents for a while. Find a new home. Listen to music he hated, go places he didn’t like, spend time with people he never knew.

Over time, he will grow more and more distant.

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