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I don’t look or act like a 20 year old girl.

People have confused me for a 15 or 16 year old… due to my childlike personality, and my petite stature. I’m very shy, and it is hard for me to speak up or defend myself. I took jiu jitsu in hopes that it would toughen me up, but I was too unassertive there as well. At work, my employer and employees call me the “little one” because I’m a year younger than them. I have no problems with looking or feeling young, but it is being unassertive and feeling as if my childish personality is getting in the way of being emotionally mature.

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JustMoi offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

I just turned 20 last week. I feel no big difference at all. The only thing different is that I’m one year from being legal to bars, clubs, and casinos.

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trentlover20 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (10 hours, 4 minutes after post)

I’d call that lucky, when you hit your 20s you don’t wanna look your age I look about 25-26 coz of the makeup, false eyelashes and fake tan I wear.

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