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do you really want to end your friendship because of this stupid reasons.u shouldn’t expect him to care you all the time.every one has own life and can’t indicate on just one aspect of life.be sure that he loves you too.boys don’t really want to blurt their emotions.they are Introverted.i think he likes to help you but because of his proud (every boy has proud,low or high proud)he don’t want to blurt it.
i hope it helps you

do you really want to end your friendship because of this stupid reasons?u shouldn’t expect him to care you all the time.every one has own life and can’t indicate on just one aspect of life.be sure that he loves you too.boys don’t really want to blurt their emotions.they are Introverted.i think he likes to help you but because of his proud (every boy has proud,low or high proud)he don’t want to blurt it.
i hope it helps you

The previous poster obviously didnt read the entire post.

Let me give you the real scoop, my fellow Wholigan. I was in a relationship with a girl last year and pretty much the same thing was going on…well except the living an hour away thing. I always did lots of things for her…matter of fact I enjoyed doing things for her and for the longest time it didn’t bother me that things were not reciprocated….but after a couple of months…that little seed of resentment started growing and by the time the relationship was all but over…I had become so angry and bitter and mostly resentful because of it I had actually went and made myself a jaded and miserable person.

I finally got past all that once I got out of the relationship and saw what it was doing to me. Let me tell you being taken for granted is probably one of the worst feelings in the world. But if you are already feeling that you care more for him than he does for you…this feeling is likely only going to get worse unless the two of you can talk it out.

It’s all too obvious you are smart enough to know you deserve to be treated better…so you know the problem, now you need to find a solution…and if he is not willing to give to the relationship at the very least what you are putting into it, then I think we both know what you need to do.

Good Luck!!

[quote izzitd]The previous poster obviously didnt read the entire post.

i read the post completly

If you drive an hour to see this boyfriend, and he ignores you while he fiddles on the computer, you need to grab your purse, go out the door and start driving on the road to home.

This guy is definitely taking you for granted. Time to ditch this guy and find someone who’s ready for a SERIOUS relationship.

This guy isn’t.

So what happened? Did you two work your issues out or is that still ‘pending’?? Just curious.