Love help: I just want simply life and happy…but im not getting from my marryage…leave or stay…? - Help.com

I just want simply life and happy…

but im not getting from my marryage…leave or stay…??????

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supergeek00 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

what’s your doubt about leaving? if you had no doubt i’m sure you wouldn’t hesitate to leave.

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MARCHCOC offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

I agree with you but im so scare of him..i feel living in cage..i dont have money to leave him..i think he know that..i dont want gov help…i dont want to be homeless..some time i dont want to wake up in the morning…

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supergeek00 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

you need someone to take care of you until you’re stronger, don’t worry about money, there’s help available.

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southern_comfort online Verified User (7 years) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

Why are you scared of your husband..? Are you in an abusive marriage??

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MARCHCOC offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

I dont know who you are …but thanks take time to tell me ….more hard me is i come from korea 30years ago…i do not have any one.i had friend but since i got marry they wake away from me..

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southern_comfort online Verified User (7 years) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

You live in the United States now? Have you become a citizen of the US?

You have NO friends? Family? Church?

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Marchcoc, you will not solve your problems by repeating the query post after post …
What you have to do is: to ACT.
Reframe and realign your life.
 
“Life is what you make it. Always has been, always will be.”
(Eleanor Roosevelt, 1901 – 1962)

“Perspectives on life!”:
http://www.paulabrandantlcsw.com/?p=185

“4 Effective Practices for Gaining Perspective”:
http://www.thechangeblog.com/4-effect…

“Keeping Perspective When Life Smacks You Up”:
http://www.earthlingcommunication.com…

“Meaning of life”:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meaning_…

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southern_comfort online Verified User (7 years) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

You need to make a plan. Having help in making it would be important too. If he is abusing you you need to go to a “safe house” where he can not reach you. Call the Domestic abuse hotline.

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MARCHCOC offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

Yes mently ..some time my brain dont work any more…i dont even know who im any more…yes im citizen in us..but i dont help im not talk about just money..
I had good life ..i had at all..now i dont even know who im…yes i made wrong choice…any way thankyou for just talk to me..sometime i talk to about i feel better…but now i dont belive no one…
Im a good woman..everybody say so….

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IrAdler offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

Have you been married for all 30 years you are away from Korea or you just got married not long ago. How long have you been married?

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supergeek00 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

marchcoc wrote:
i dont know who you are …but thanks take time to tell me ….more hard me is i come from korea 30years ago…i do not have any one.i had friend but since i got marry they wake away from me..buy the way “thanks”

Your welcome. could you find your friend on the internet?

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MARCHCOC offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

No i been marry only 5years…i dont trust internet friend. im trying so hard to get out..but i feel im in the box cant go no where…i was 116pound now 98pound.
Thanks…..

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supergeek00 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

what would it be like if you could go out of the box?

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supergeek00 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

I need to go. good luck.

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