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How to tell parents I relapsed into depression?

My mom is always supportive, but my dad is one of those “you’re too young, talk to me when youre thirty about REAL sadness” type guys.
I hate being depressed not only because of the feeling, but i feel even MORE depressed knowing that my parents have to pay for it, so much so i dont even know if i should tell them i relapsed.
We’ve been through therapies and medications for two years, and the depression stopped and i was weened off medication.
Recently though it came back about 3 times stronger, Im losing weight, I have suicidal thoughts, self mutilation and i KNOW its dangerous. I just cant stand putting my family through more financial hardship.
Is there a way to go around this?

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

There probably is no gentle way to say it. But you must tell them. So just take a deep breath, and talk to your Mom.

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chiara.enrique offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Thank you :)

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