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Hi I’m a 25year old girl and I work in a shopping centre.

I’m irish. a british guy in his early thirties started working in a cafe in the centre last year. I really like him but only the way he looks, walks, talks as I haven’t really spoken to him yet and i don’t know his personality yet. i’d like to let him know I like him without looking desperate or stupid. I’m shy too so keep that in mind when answering. I’d like to be bold and confident for once but I need some ideas. I understand there are people on here with real problems but any help would be much appreciated thanks!:)

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Hi I’m a 25year old girl and I work in a shopping centre. I’m irish. a british guy in his early thirties started working in a cafe in the centre last year. I really like him but only the way he looks, walks, talks as I haven’t really spoken to him yet and i don’t know his personality yet. i’d like to let him know I like him without looking desperate or stupid. I’m shy too so keep that in mind when answering. I’d like to be bold and confident for once but I need some ideas thanks!:)

SheepCat offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

Well, go say hi. Go over there and ask him about the cafe. Thats the best way to start.

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

He is shy too which is why he hasn’t approached you. So you can sit and stare at each other from a distance or take a chance and say “Hi.” In a public setting like a mall you should feel safe. Guys like to feel needed so perhaps take a phone or GPS over to see if he can “fix” it for you.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

well if this is your picture in the icon you have no problem with good looks.
Southern_ has the right idea.Ask him to help you with something.
Perhaps a computer question.The way he answers is very useful to you.
If he says he would love to take a look at it for you.
Your in.

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white_callavswhite_l offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

If it’s not too expensive go over and order a coffe to go. If you do it regularly he might recognize you and you can…acclimate to his presence.

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 55 minutes after post)

I think the best way to start talking to someone is to start talking to them. just say hi and introduce yourself. if you make a big show of it (act overly insecure or bold) then it could put him off, but if you just do it casually it could blossom into a friendship.
if you feel as if you’re just too shy to say hello and tell him your name, you could always put yourself around him and hopes he notices you. wear something really distinctive; a conversation starter.

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lollycocktail offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 58 minutes after post)

Thank you everyone!:)

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