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My boyfriend keeps having dreams of me cheating on him.

We have been dating for almost 4 months and we are very committed to each other. Im insanely in love with him and i would never cheat on him. The weirder thing is that I have had a few dreams of me cheating on my boyfriend. They’re just completely random guys. What could this all mean?

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Cap N Crunch offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Sometimes dreams are just dreams. Maybe it’s nothing? Not really an expert, sorry

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karnation159 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

This has happened to me too. It’s the insecurities of your boyfriend (which is totally normal) and honestly I’m a girl that has been with two people.. was never promiscious but i still have dreams about other guys.. sometimes random sometimes my boyfriends friends! It’s all very normal and it honestly doesn’t mean anything. Dont blame yourself or anything… it’s TOTALY NORMAL@
Hope this helped
:)
And if you want to talk more about it, i’m here :)

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BeckWashbur offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

Thank you so much that helps a lot. One of his ex girlfriends cheated on him like 5 times so naturally he’s gonna have insecurities.

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sncoronado offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (55 minutes after post)

i have never dreamed i was the one cheating but i have dreamed about catching my better half cheating and in real life he wasn’t. i think it’s cus it’s always on my mind that when he is out he is cheating.
but still. i say its totally normal. maybe he did cheat or has come close to cheating and feels guilty?
idk much as a professional opinion goes, but if there is someone cheating in your relationship, it’s him.
i hope this don’t make you worry.
good luck

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (9 months after post)

Dude,this is totally normal.dreams r dreams.they r thoughts in ur head that make u feel Insecure.My bf told me that he dreamt that I cheated on him with a poster and I’v sometimes dreamt that he cheated on me with a girl I hate.but I know he isn’t cheating on me and he knows that I’m not cheating on him.we’ve been going out for 6months already and we rlly trust each other.the dreams just r thoughts that u think of.

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