girl help: If i am talking to a girl for the first time like on fb messenger - Help.com

Don’t force anything, wait for it to be willingly told. However if she asks you information that’s similar, feel free to ask her in return (If she refuses then I’d stop giving her information).

Do it in a natural way, like if you are listening to music, mention it and ask about her musical preferences.

Agree with above users. I think this conversation should just flow, and not be forced. But I think if you want to know more about her, it would be better to ask in person.

Also, how are you feeling today? Tell her. Explain why. Never fails to stimulate–women like it when you share your feelings and then try to guess why you’re feeling that way. Do you have a cool plan for next weekend, month, fall, etc?? You could share that, “I’m really excited because my cousins from Maine invited me to the Bronx next weekend. I’ve never been to the Bronx, so I’m kind of nervous. I wonder what people do there for fun.” Sort of like that, except maybe replace “the Bronx” with “deep-sea fishing” or “Shakespeare in the park” or something.