Never been so frustrated with life feel like giving up :(.
My positive carry on with life attitude has just gone straight out the window coz I cried just now in anger and frustration.
I’m not gonna get to do anything with my life, I can’t even go back to college because the course starts when I’ll be on holiday. It’s days like today that I ******* hate my life so much and feel like I’m wasting it. I can’t get a job because there are no jobs available where I live believe me I’ve looked, I want to go back to college and study a course that could help me have something to do every day and give me inspiration in life but I can’t even ******* do that. It’s ridiculous they’re not gonna let me in coz of my track record, and I’ll be two weeks late into the course coz I’ll be on holiday. FFS I feel like crying and just curling up into a ball really did think things were gonna get better and that I was gonna do something with my life but I can’t. What do you do when you’ve tried everything? I can’t magically make the people on the course change their minds if they won’t let me in they won’t let me in theres’ nothing I can do.
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Is there any way to reschedule your holiday plans? I’m not sure how important this holiday is to you, but I personally would sacrifice my vacation for school simply because I consider education to be far more important. I have even had to curtail one my vacations for the sake of not missing my first class one semester. Of course, not everyone would agree with my opinion that school should come first. However, given the circumstances, if I had to choose between the two options, I’d choose school every time. One can usually choose to take a holiday (vacation) almost any time of the year. School, on the other hand, does not afford the same benefit.
Why can’t you just not go on holiday? Is this holiday something you absolutely have no say in? Your parents couldn’t possibly value this vacation over your education.
I agree 100% with windmills! What is your track record that you said they had a problem with?
Have you tried posting adds to clean people’s houses? I know you have said you clean your Aunts house…this could be a good side job until you find the kind of work you like. I cleaned house out where I’m at for 6 months while I was in between looking for jobs and actually made good money doing this! Just an idea…hope everything works out for ya!
windmills, wrote:
Is there any way to reschedule your holiday plans? I’m not sure how important this holiday is to you, but I personally would sacrifice my vacation for school simply because I consider education to be far more important. I have even had to curtail one my vacations for the sake of not missing my first class one semester. Of course, not everyone would agree with my opinion that school should come first. However, given the circumstances, if I had to choose between the two options, I’d choose school every time. One can usually choose to take a holiday (vacation) almost any time of the year. School, on the other hand, does not afford the same benefit.
Yes this holiday is everything to me I’ve been planning it for over a year with everything that’s happened to me I need some time away and I’m not sure how to reschedule it I’ve heard it costs money to reschedule but idk. The only remotely good thing is I will be here when the course starts on the 10th but a week after that I go on holiday so IDK maybe it is feasible for them to let me have a week off and give me coursework to do on holiday but idk I haven’t asked yet this is just me assuming the worst, it’s a bad habit of mine.
Well don’t assume the worst! Go talk to the teacher and let them know your situation I can’t see why they would not work with you on this!
nolateri wrote:
Well don’t assume the worst! Go talk to the teacher and let them know your situation I can’t see why they would not work with you on this!
Yeah I will, an email’s been sent telling them about my situation and stuff that I’m going on holiday etc but like I said with my track record they might refuse to let me in.
What happened was 2 years ago I got kicked out of college because I became ill with constant regular periods that drained me of all my energy and caused me immense amount of pain all the time, and I had a really bad itching skin rash, also I was not getting any sleep coz I had my ex brother in law living with me and my sister at the time and he refused to sleep downstairs so I had to sleep on a bed on the floor which meant I didn’t get much sleep. Anyway I missed a few days because I was ill and I was late for a few lessons also apparently I didn’t finish some health and safety test from a previous course so they threw me out halfway through the course, because of this they could turn around and say that I’m unreliable, and that I have unfinished work from the other course that I didn’t get a chance to complete.
Chi The Cat wrote:
Why can’t you just not go on holiday? Is this holiday something you absolutely have no say in? Your parents couldn’t possibly value this vacation over your education.
I’m going on this holiday with my sister, it’s already been paid for and if I reschedule it to a week or two weeks earlier it will cost me a fortune. I don’t have the money to reschedule it because I’ll need every penny I can get to pay for college, and the holiday itself.
trentlover20 wrote:
nolateri wrote:
Well don’t assume the worst! Go talk to the teacher and let them know your situation I can’t see why they would not work with you on this!Yeah I will, an email’s been sent telling them about my situation and stuff that I’m going on holiday etc but like I said with my track record they might refuse to let me in.
What happened was 2 years ago I got kicked out of college because I became ill with constant regular periods that drained me of all my energy and caused me immense amount of pain all the time, and I had a really bad itching skin rash, also I was not getting any sleep coz I had my ex brother in law living with me and my sister at the time and he refused to sleep downstairs so I had to sleep on a bed on the floor which meant I didn’t get much sleep. Anyway I missed a few days because I was ill and I was late for a few lessons also apparently I didn’t finish some health and safety test from a previous course so they threw me out halfway through the course, because of this they could turn around and say that I’m unreliable, and that I have unfinished work from the other course that I didn’t get a chance to complete.
Sorry me ex brother lol idk where I got the brother in law from lol, he was my aunt’s husband’s son, we were like family.
Be sure to let us know the outcome. Hope you get into the college course you’re seeking.
Best of luck.
windmills, wrote:
Be sure to let us know the outcome. Hope you get into the college course you’re seeking.Best of luck.
Thanks I hope I do as well if I don’t it’s not the end of the world I can always enrol for the spring courses next year and then figure something out in Septembe
Absolutely. Sometimes things work out for the best - even though it may be too early for us to see it.
Keep you chin up while you hope for the best and prepare for the worst.
trentlover20 wrote:
trentlover20 wrote:
nolateri wrote:
Well don’t assume the worst! Go talk to the teacher and let them know your situation I can’t see why they would not work with you on this!Yeah I will, an email’s been sent telling them about my situation and stuff that I’m going on holiday etc but like I said with my track record they might refuse to let me in.
What happened was 2 years ago I got kicked out of college because I became ill with constant regular periods that drained me of all my energy and caused me immense amount of pain all the time, and I had a really bad itching skin rash, also I was not getting any sleep coz I had my ex brother in law living with me and my sister at the time and he refused to sleep downstairs so I had to sleep on a bed on the floor which meant I didn’t get much sleep. Anyway I missed a few days because I was ill and I was late for a few lessons also apparently I didn’t finish some health and safety test from a previous course so they threw me out halfway through the course, because of this they could turn around and say that I’m unreliable, and that I have unfinished work from the other course that I didn’t get a chance to complete.
Sorry me ex brother lol idk where I got the brother in law from lol, he was my aunt’s husband’s son, we were like family.
trentlover20 wrote:
windmills, wrote:
Be sure to let us know the outcome. Hope you get into the college course you’re seeking.Best of luck.
Thanks I hope I do as well if I don’t it’s not the end of the world I can always enrol for the spring courses next year and then figure something out in Septembe
Hope it all works out! Where are you going for Holiday?
nolateri wrote:
trentlover20 wrote:
trentlover20 wrote:
nolateri wrote:
Well don’t assume the worst! Go talk to the teacher and let them know your situation I can’t see why they would not work with you on this!Yeah I will, an email’s been sent telling them about my situation and stuff that I’m going on holiday etc but like I said with my track record they might refuse to let me in.
What happened was 2 years ago I got kicked out of college because I became ill with constant regular periods that drained me of all my energy and caused me immense amount of pain all the time, and I had a really bad itching skin rash, also I was not getting any sleep coz I had my ex brother in law living with me and my sister at the time and he refused to sleep downstairs so I had to sleep on a bed on the floor which meant I didn’t get much sleep. Anyway I missed a few days because I was ill and I was late for a few lessons also apparently I didn’t finish some health and safety test from a previous course so they threw me out halfway through the course, because of this they could turn around and say that I’m unreliable, and that I have unfinished work from the other course that I didn’t get a chance to complete.
Sorry me ex brother lol idk where I got the brother in law from lol, he was my aunt’s husband’s son, we were like family.
trentlover20 wrote:
windmills, wrote:
Be sure to let us know the outcome. Hope you get into the college course you’re seeking.Best of luck.
Thanks I hope I do as well if I don’t it’s not the end of the world I can always enrol for the spring courses next year and then figure something out in Septembe
Hope it all works out! Where are you going for Holiday?
Thanks I got an email back from them but not about the holiday all they said was they don’t know the course dates yet but they’ll let me know sometime in August. I’m going to Spain a place in the Costa Brava called Tossa De Mar can’t wait, some time in the sun will be just what I need :)
That’s awesome! Have a great time……I hear it is beautiful there!
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