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Me and my kids father have been together for seven years.

We broke up in December but i still want him back. But now he doesnt want to do for the kids because he thinks im messing around. Im a single parent with three kids and right now I feel that I am at my breaking point.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (28 minutes after post)

This is why it is a good idea to get married before you have children. Anyways what you need to do is call the courthouse where you live and ask them how to apply for child support. Here is a link from Massachusetts that tells you exactly which forms you need to file. http://www.masslegalhelp.org/children…

Where do you live? The rules of engagement are different for different places. Oh, and why does he think you are messing around? After 7 years he suddenly just decided you were a cheat?

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (3 hours, 17 minutes after post)

When people aren’t married, one partner can just get up and walk out. Now you probably see that marriage is more than “just a piece of paper.”

GO to this guy and tell him you love him. Tell him you were not messing around and that you would like to go to couples counseling with him. Don’t try to sell the idea of getting back together for the kids’ sake. He would want to feel that you want him for himself, not just as a provider.

But if he won’t agree to reconcile, you have no choice but to file for child support.

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