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So, I texted this guy and asked how he was doing and

I was just making sure he’s ok well he never responded but then this afternoon this guy writes on his fb wall and asks him basically the same thing and he responds to him. I don’t get it. Am I not important enough to know how he’s doing or why would he not respond to me when I was asking him about himself. And I asked first. Why would he ignore me?

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monkichirmo offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

maybe he’s not the texting type.

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ilivelife offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

Maybe he doesn’t like you?

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10 months, 1 week ago (44 minutes after post)

Even as a friend? He just commented on a few photos of mine last week saying they were cute and stuff. So, but I told him I just wanted to know if he was ok. I guess the power of no response is basically telling me I shouldn’t care about him…even as a friend.

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farrell_rin offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (50 minutes after post)

ask him if he even got the text. maybe he didnt even get it?

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

why were you asking if he was okay? was he going through some personal trouble lately?

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Airkeeper offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

Or maybe he’s like me and just really **** at texting back?

Try a couple more times maybe, but if you get the same result, I wouldn’t bother with it.

Good luck!

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monkichirmo offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Even as a friend? He just commented on a few photos of mine last week saying they were cute and stuff. So, but I told him I just wanted to know if he was ok. I guess the power of no response is basically telling me I shouldn’t care about him…even as a friend.

lol that’s kind’a extreme. i personally have received text(and voice mails) DAYS after they had been originally sent. of course, i have a crappy phone company to thank for that i guess. just one more thing to take into consideration…if you really want to know the easiest way without drama is to ask him directly.

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