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duallychevy1987

Lately I’ve been feeling like now one cares abt me

or even wants to talk to me.I’m 25 never had a girl friend and I mean never.never had that 1st kiss the harder I try at something I fall even harder.all I do anymore is sleep eat and work and occasionally go out with one or 2 of my buddies that actually talk to me still.I try to be nice if anyone met me you would prob want to know what is wrong with me.I’ve been told I’m fin to be around but that was in high school and even there I didn’t have many friends jus feom being in learning support.I try making friends but it always fails.I only have abt to 3 peep I can call true friends especially one that seems like he’s the only one that worries bout me.I’ve already had thoughts run threw my head if I jumped off a cliff no one would care abt me or miss me they’d just forget abt me.the more I look around I feel like I’m being left in the dust used for a door mat a lot of peep my age have already found there love of there life starting to really enjoy life while I’m looking on from the outside wondering what have I done wrong in life to be left in the dust.i work my rear end off for everything and I always end up with hunk peep don’t want

Id really like to get a shot with a girl but it always ends the same way let’s just be friends and in the one they use for a crying shoulder when there current guy is a *** to them I’ve had my share of heart breaks so I don’t really try.I’m run.ING out of options the older I get it seems like I’m gonna be single forever and die alone.as I said before everyone I see has there other half its hard for me to see couples having fun buying gifts like on valentines day and christmas its hard for me to go out to the store then cause I feel like I’m a loser.

I don’t know where to turn to.

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supergeek00 5 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (12 minutes after post)

you need confidence? girls love that

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Positivemessylove 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (54 minutes after post)

supergeek00 wrote:
you need confidence? girls love that

girls want a man who know who they are. it sounds like you’re still searching.
the thing is, you feel as if something about you is missing.
that you’re not as good as you want.
but you are the only person that can change that.

having girlfriends and relationships doesn’t make you a better person.
or a cooler person.
or a normal person.
Being a better, cooler, normal person does.
It doesn’t matter that you’ve never had a first kiss or anything because you can still have those things. Now they’ll just mean more. :)
You want a girlfriend? Go out and meet people!
But I suggest adjusting your general attitude first, you seem like kind of a downer. I bet you a great person - you sound just fine! Nice and smart, and a good guy with a good heart. Just be more positive. Things will turn around, if you make them.

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Airkeeper 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

You’re the “nice guy” aren’t you?

You’re clearly letting this not have a girlfriend thing eat you up from the inside. Thing is, girls dig guys who are confident enough to not care. Be a little of a smart-***. Not in a nasty way, but in a fun, cheeky way. Girls love that ****, it shows you have confidence.

25 is not old, either. LOTS of people find their partners in their 30’s, 40’s and even more. Unsurprisingly enough, those seem to be the relationships that last. People are still developing in their 20’s. Who they are, what they want to do, what they want to be etc. Don’t despair!

If you play your cards right, saying “I’ve never been kissed by a girl before” will probably get you some… ;-) But it is about how you present yourself to people. Be self-confident in who you are, and people will be attracted to that.

Kia Kaha!

supergeek00 5 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

Allthemessylove. wrote:

girls want a man who know who they are. it sounds like you’re still searching.
the thing is, you feel as if something about you is missing.
that you’re not as good as you want.
but you are the only person that can change that.

you may be right there.

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trentlover20 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (2 hours, 54 minutes after post)

I understand how you feel, my ex was 23 and I was his first girlfriend but he didn’t seem to care and I admired that quality about him. Trust me relationships are overrated when they’re rushed into just for the sake of getting into a relationship, enjoy yourself try not to let it get you down and appreciate that you have friends because there are a lot of people in your boat who don’t have any friends to go out with or talk to or anything and they’re single in their 20s as well. Next time you go out with your friends on a night out or to a bar or w/e just try and be confident and happy, try and make a girl laugh and don’t let it get you down too much I’m sure you’re a lovely guy and like I said you’re not alone :)

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