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My sister just put on her tumblr that she doesn’t know I know about that I ruin everything…

I’m sorry that I feel so alone. You’re lucky you have two dogs to sleep with. Mine is gone. My boyfriend is gone. My friends are gone. I have nothing. Sorry for ruining everything.

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mindhealer offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (2 minutes after post)

She might not have gotten over how you left her all alone just to go off to college. That can leave a gaping hole in one’s life.

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mindhealer offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I hope it gets better for you. If you want to read a forum that is all about relationships, click my help me with thing and there’s a link.

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SheepCat offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (5 minutes after post)

She went to college before me. So technically she left me. I ruin everything because I’m tired. I’m tired of working while she does nothing. I’m tired of being asked to do everything when she does nothing. I’m tired of her taking my stuff. All I wanted was to have one of the dogs sleep in my room tonight. Because mine is gone. I don’t even want to be in this house anymore.

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mindhealer offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I’m tired like that too. I don’t even bother with my siblings any more even though they’re almost the only people that have ever been important to me. And that is sad. But what is to be done? All I know is to suggest a link. But other people will come help you, all your help.com brothers and sisters will come say wonderful words of wisdom and things will get better.

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Chi The Cat offline Verified User (5 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (22 minutes after post)

It sounds like this person is unable to see their behavior in relation to what’s going on. Some people just do whatever their first instinct is and don’t think about it. We’ve all done it. But really, if you do everything and she does nothing and she is complaining then that is just immaturity. You can try and point out what’s going on but I’m not sure it would help. Just take comfort in knowing that you are in the right in this situation.

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (42 minutes after post)

Some people are like that. They have everything handed to them and don’t pay much attention to another’s feelings. Do you think that maybe you’re expected to do more because you’re more mature and responsible? I’m sorry about your situation. I love my dog to death. She always sleeps next to my head like a fuzzy pillow. It would be a bit lonely in bed without her. It seems as though you had a very rough day. Makes you feel depressed and miserable. I hope tomorrow is better.

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (59 minutes after post)

I’m sorry you’re feeling bad. I hope you truly know that you aren’t at fault for any of her problems. I’m sorry her bad attitude has brought you down. You have been having a rough time, and you deserve to be treated nicely. Your sister, as bitchy as she seems, probably loves you a lot, and is just having issues confronting the internal flaws that are making her own life unhappy. I really hope you feel better soon :)

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