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How to tell that his behavior is not acceptable?
My boyfriend of 2 years started hanging out with this male friend. I was fine with it at first but he began to come home late. He would come home even after 12am or at the latest 2:30am. Then one night he didn’t come back and didn’t even let me know until I asked his friend if he was ever coming home. My fear that it would only go bad to worse came true as last night he finally didn’t come home or text me ever that he was not coming home or what he was up to.
Sure, you want some space for yourself, time to hang out with own circle of friends. But IS IS OKAY not to let the partner know at all if he was gonna stay overnight at his friend’s or what he was up to? Last time he didn’t make it home, I told him to message me if anything and I’ve found it unacceptable and disrespectful that he wouldn’t comply with a single simple thing I asked him to do.
Today up until now he hasn’t made any explanation whatsoever on what he has been up to or what happened last night that he couldn’t even spare a second to text me. I’m at a loss how on earth I’m going to have to deal with the situation and somehow tell him that this is not acceptable.
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