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I don’t know what to do

My life just seems a mess I’m clincally depressed along with other things and Im unable to work right now. I did have employment support allowance but I got kicked off last year but most of the questions asked were the physical aspects of working and both doctors and someone i seen at the job center agreed im too sick so I havn’t been getting any money at all. I do see a psycologist but it seems like he is doing nothing at all he said hed get another therapist for me then I would be guaranteed to be able to stay on emoployment support till im better but he hasn’t even arranged that because I havn’t recieved a letter and this was months ago. My dad and an online friend insist im not fat but when I showed them a picture I didn’t want to show people cause I looked fat they both said I was. I don’t have any friends anymore they all stopped contact years ago and In this past year iv been used by 3 men just for my body or so they can have pictures I just feel really worthless.

I just want someone to love me and tell me everything will be ok isit really too much to ask I don’t know what I should do or where to start to try fix things.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (15 minutes after post)

List your problems. Just a few words for each problem and post them here.

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verge 134 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Everything will be okay :)
Alright, so things have seemed hopeless recently, but you have the power to change your situation, or at least the power to look at it more positively. The men who used you are awful people, but there are many good people, so don’t lose faith. Don’t stop nagging the psychologist. If you keep working on them, you will get what you need. You have to fight for yourself, I’m sorry to say that nobody else will. It is up to you, but don’t worry, help.com will be here to encourage you. Don’t give up :)

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Anonymous #
11 months ago (20 minutes after post)

I see my psychologist again in mid August but theres so many things he hasn’t done yet and doesn’t seem to listen to me and im effectivly getting no help at all should I try calling him or just wait it out?

verge 134 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Call him. Badger him. Don’t let him put you on the back burner, but be as polite as possible :)

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (23 minutes after post)

try to get in touch with your therapist or someone who can help you get the employment support. in the meantime, you could help your self-image and your physical health problems by changing the way you eat, if that’s a problem for you. maybe you can see if you can take online classes and find something that can support you too?

good luck :)

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Anonymous #
11 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Thanks for your help everyone I feel better already just having someone listen to me :)

verge 134 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (25 minutes after post)

You’re welcome!

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Jesuslovesyo #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (43 minutes after post)

Pray and thank god first for the blessings he’s already given you then ask him to come into your life and be the source of love that you need and only he can give 3

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (59 minutes after post)

No matter who doctor or therapist you are seeing, remember that you are ultimately responsible for pulling yourself up and getting rid of all the junk that’s renting space in your mind.

Really WANT to be fully functioning and think about what you can do to become fully independent!

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