I’m a girl in the friend zone.
I’ve liked this guy on and off for the past two or three years. I keep trying to keep myself from liking him because of different reasons and it helps for a while, but then I just end up liking him again. He’s amazing. He’s by no means perfect and we’ve had our ups and downs, but we’ve worked them out. I know he cares about me as and he calls me one of his best friends. He’s been with his girlfriend for almost a year and I know they’re really good for each other. I just feel like we’re really great for each other. I suppose my real problem is that I’m not sure what to do. He has no knowledge (at least I don’t think) of my feelings and I don’t know that I want him to. I value our friendship a lot and I don’t want to just stop being friends to get over him. We’ve been there for each other through so much so I don’t know that I even could just walk away. Should I just try to somehow find a way to get over him or should I just wait? I don’t know how to get over him. Or that I want to.
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