Whoops, insecurity problem.
Yes, I screwed up. I could have approached it a different way.
This is what happened - recently, my girlfriend was talking to this guy friend she met recently way more than me. And she spent nearly her entire day chatting with him.
So today, I snapped. I jumped to conclusions when she told me that she was waiting for him before deciding what to do next, and I concluded that she deemed me unimportant.
Almost immediately I regretted it. I realized that she never stated those words, and I was just jealous that I didn’t get that amount of attention.
So we talked a bit over skype about my clingy problem, and her responses were pretty short, and cold. She forgave me apparently, and also admitted that she had forgotten to text me back when I had, and that she shouldn’t have been spending so much time with the friend.
I don’t know how I could have approached this problem better, my method was horrible. Just plain horrible. And I deserved nothing less but the cold shoulder.
How should I have dealt with this problem?
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