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Boy drama..

I know I already asked a question like this, but I would like to receive as many points of view as possible.

Three summers ago, before my freshman year, I dated this guy and it lasted like two weeks… It ended really abruptly and kind of left me shattered. He was my first boyfriend and I was sure my world was ending. The worst part was, less than a month later he started dating one of my closest friends. She’d stopped talking to me shortly before they made their relationship public and really hasn’t talked to me since.

Then out of the blue last year he said he liked me again. It caught me off guard and I told him that I just didn’t want to make the same mistake we’d made two years earlier and ruin our friendship again.

Well, three months went by and we would text all the time and he would be really sweet and stuff, and he kind of won me over again.

But then he completely stopped texting me. Later on in the year, one of my friends told me that he had told her that he was annoyed with me and didn’t like me at all anymore.

So, here’s where my question comes. Next week i’m going on vacation with him and a bunch of other people. What should I do? Should I play cool or go after him? Why or why not?

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