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I have this person on my mind a lot..

This is someone I’ve been attracted to for about year and a half now. There was a time he would flirt with me playfully and I felt like he was just trying to have a little fun cuz he knew I fancied him. I was a little annoyed and I facebooked him to see what his intention was. He didn’t respond and after that his flirting’s toned down a bit. Recently our paths crossed again and he purposely did something to get to talk to me, and at that moment I felt chemistry between us. I noticed sometimes he’d observe and look at me intently when he thinks I’m not looking. What should I do? I’m confused..

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 minute after post)

Just talk to him and see where it leads. If he seems interested, ask him out.

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cero offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 minute after post)

gurl don’t do a thang play damsel in distress

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Anonymous #
10 months ago (9 minutes after post)

verge wrote:
Just talk to him and see where it leads. If he seems interested, ask him out.

I facebooked him and he didn’t respond. If he’s interested he would have at least sent me a message..

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Probably. That sucks, I’m sorry. It is probably best to move on.

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (13 minutes after post)

ask him out
lunch a burger, or something

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Sharath offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Talk to him face to face, ask him out! He didn’t respond in the past for some reason, maybe things have changed now! If you are attracted to him for the past year and a half, the mere fact that he didn’t respond in the past shouldn’t stop you from a possibility of being together!
Hope it works out! Good luck! :)

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Anonymous #
10 months ago (56 minutes after post)

Thanks for the replies. Asking a guy out is something I’ve never done before.. I think I would have been easier if I knew I wouldn’t have to keep seeing him afterwards. If it didn’t work out.

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Sharath offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Thanks for the replies. Asking a guy out is something I’ve never done before.. I think I would have been easier if I knew I wouldn’t have to keep seeing him afterwards. If it didn’t work out.

Anytime Ms.Anonymous! :D. I know how you feel, I’ve never asked a girl out too! But the fear of the forthcoming events shouldn’t stop us from getting or trying to get what we want! :) Hope things work out! :)

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Anonymous #
10 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

Thanks so much Sharath! I hope so too :)

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Sharath offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (2 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Thanks so much Sharath! I hope so too :)

Happy I could help! :) Tell me what happens! :)

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Anonymous #
10 months ago (11 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Sharath wrote:

Happy I could help! :) Tell me what happens! :)

Will do :)

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