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I’m so lost :( Hii guys, alright so this may be a little
long but i’ll try make it as simple as possible and I really need everyone’s opinion on this because i got told that i was the right one in this situation but i don’t understand what i did wrong in the first place. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months and we’re both 16. Everything was going so well today and i really feel close to him and he means a lot to me and it would hurt to be without him. I was texting him tonight and we talked about how he is going to meet my dad next week :). He kept asking me why my dad is so over-protective and i told my boyfriend that my dad can get jealous sometimes because im his only child and he doesn’t want me to get hurt. Just like any father out there, they wouldn’t stand it if their little girl got hurt.. i tried to explain the way my dad feels to my boyfriend and he got upset because i said “u won’t understand exactly what im talking about because ur a son, and it’s different for a daughter”. I didn’t mean to offend him or anything
:( i was only stating my opinion and my boyfriend replied saying, “Im pretty sure that’s not the cause because why would my parents be jealous? they would want the best for me and to be happy even if i were a girl. It also kinda hurt me a bit when you said I would’nt understand cause i’m a boy :(”. First of all, i wasn’t even talking about his parents and second of all I wasn’t being rude to him because i wanted him to know that it’s different to be in my shoes because non of his parents care if he’s going out with me. I’m such a stubborn girl and i’m very sensible :( and i would never mean to hurt anyone on purpose so I got REALLY upset and now i don’t want to talk to him because i never open my mouth whenever he jokes around and hurts my feelings yet he complains about the smallest deal. Please help me ? :( i don’t know what to do and I told him i was very sorry many times! although now he keeps saying he loves me but i’m still angry at him? because he ruined my night! and now i feel like crap!
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