life help: My messed up addiction with having men I shouldn’t. - Help.com

You may have nyphomania and have to go see a counsellor about this because there are various ways to keep your urges under control. One day you will look back on all these one night stands and cringe lol I’ve been there done it and got the t shirt at the time I thought I was so special that because someone wanted me sexually it meant something but it doesn’t, men will **** anything that’s breathing and willing especially disgusting older men, you need to stop what you’re doing because if you don’t it could land you in trouble, you could end up sleeping with someone who’s married and it’d ruin a marriage and you. This is not a good path to go down, I know so many girls who have and it never turns out good, one girl I know slept with nearly 50 men by the time she was in her 20s and because of this she couldn’t walk down the street or even go in an elevator without seeing some guy that she’d slept with (this is no word of a lie) she became a hermit because of it staying in with her scumbag possessive gf on a Saturday night when all her other mates were out and I know she wanted to be as well because she was a social butterfly. What I’m trying to say is apart from damaging you mentally and physically not to mention the consequences of as I said sleeping with someone and their other half finds out, doing this kind of thing can age you mentally too quick, by the time you’re 24-25 do you really wanna think that’s if I’ve lived life there’s nothing else for me to do? I’m just gonna stay in a ****** one bedroom with someone who I’m forced to be in a relationship with just for a quiet life? That’s what happened to this girl, she thought she’d lived her life to the extreme just by going out getting drunk and sleeping around, she’s not even been abroad or left the country and has no interests in anything else in life at all this is one of the reasons why I fell out with her. What I’m really trying to say is depending on the number of men you’ve slept with (if it’s over 20 then you’ve got nymphomania) you may need to seek professional help, there is no shame, there is no judgement at all we’re all young we all make mistakes, but if this is consuming your life then you need to figure out how to stop it.

you have problems that need to be resolved with therapy and church.
I cannot began to understand how you came to be such way, since I am very different from you, but if you overcome this strange problem of yours then you will be better for it.
I hope you do before you get pregnant and AIDS.

I think your right trentlover20. It’s been over 20 sadly. I want help, I just feel ashamed to get help. This problem makes me feel good while im doing it but after I’m a total wreck.

Anonymous wrote:
I think your right trentlover20. It’s been over 20 sadly. I want help, I just feel ashamed to get help. This problem makes me feel good while im doing it but after I’m a total wreck.

You need to seek professional help hun before this spirals completely out of control and you end up with an unwanted pregnancy or STDS.