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gurl don’t trust that fool. and if you do go along with this and he happens to be cheating on you and you catch him, slap him. just slap the hell out of him. gurl you need to go watch some medea movies

Trust your instincts. If you feel like there’s something wrong with the guy, run away from him as fast as your legs can carry you! We don’t call it an instinct for nothing. :)

What does Tyler tell you?

Where there is smoke, there is usually fire!

He didn’t get that reputation for nothing!

First ask him about it. Maybe he is serious about you even though he has a bad reputation. But I highly doubt it. Depends on how much time has passed since he was in a relationship. If he had, idk let’s say, a year to chill out and set his priorities straight then you 2 might have a shot. If he’s just jumping from one girl to another then you don’t wanna be with him. Be prepared to leave him. And yes, slap him if you must.

They say a cheater is always a cheater. Do you agree?

Sounds like his friends are giving you sound advice.

You have to fish a lng time before you get the perfect catch.
Maybe you should a bigger net.

well, tyler says he doesn’t do that anymore. (i’ve asked him about this before)
altho i don’t see him that often i do see “bliss” a lot, he lives across the street and every time we talk he says the same thing about tyler “he cheats on every girlfriend i’ve ever know him to have, end of story”

so i don’t know weather to trust bliss and the rest of Tyler’s friends or to trust tyler in his “i do do that anymore”

my grandma has told me “once a cheater always a cheater” similar to what “be a gal” said above.

so i don’t know….

The only way to find out is to be his girlfriend and trust him. Once you found out he cheated on you too, dump him like a hot potato.

Bliss has the hots for you and doesn’t want you to get hurt.

Also, do not use real names on the internet, if Tyler and Bliss found out, they would be really angry. Bliss has gone behind Tyler’s back to tell you this stuff and you’ve let it out. Better keep it under wraps and do what you decide to do as it’s your life.

Another word of advice, if Tyler is such a player, wear protection so that you don’t catch anything from him or one of his girls.

anon
bliss doesnt have the hots for me

the only real name ive used is tyler. so i dont think thats an issue cause bliss isint bliss’s real name.

and i think player is an understatement for him -_-

Anonymous wrote:
anon
bliss doesnt have the hots for me

the only real name ive used is tyler. so i dont think thats an issue cause bliss isint bliss’s real name.

and i think player is an understatement for him -_-

That said, MOVE ON. Get someone better. What have you done to deserve a third rate? Give yourself the present of a decent boyfriend but only after you have had a good long period of reflection on, ‘Why oh why did I end up with this one?’ Followed by, ‘What can I do to ensure this never happens to me again?’

Really important questions that YOU have to answer to yourself.

Once you’ve answered those two, then you are ready for the decent guy, not before. And don’t go avoiding the self analysis. It is necessary.

How long have you and Tyler been dating?
How old is Tyler?
And has Tyler said or done anything that makes you think he might be cheating?

Other then what you are telling us that Bliss and all of Tyler’s friends are saying is what we are hearing here and trying to give you some good advice…..based just off all the gossip it sounds like Tyler is a cheater and not to be trusted.

Can you share more like the 3 questions above……and anything else that might be helpful!

Tyler could be a really nice guy and has been through a few girls “maybe none serious” that he obviously did not care that much about!

Tyler has admitted to you he has been like that in the past instead of lying or dodging the question so you have to give him that.

How do you feel based off of your relationship with him? You said you don’t see him much is it because he doesn’t drive? Works alot? Age would help….and more information about your relationship with Tyler.

Also if Bliss and all Tyler’s friends are telling you he has cheated on all his girlfriends have any of them told you he is cheating on you? “Wouldn’t you think if they have no problem telling you negative things already about him that they would tell you this as well”!

Most diffenantly be careful and protect your heart with Tyler and any guy you date. And most diffenantly use protection even if he is not cheating on you he obviously has gotten around. Which you should use protection with anyone your with!

At this point I don’t think it is fair to give any kind of other advice about Tyler “that everyone likes to talk about” until you give us more information to base our thoughts or opionions on.

BTW It doesn’t sound like Tyler has very good friends or your just such a sweet girl that everyone even Tyler’s good friends can’t bear to see you get hurt!

about 3 months we have been dating
im not going to give ages….. sorry
the only thing hes done to suggest cheating is not call/text/see me very often

and he doesnt really have a reason for that he lives about a block down the street from mine and bliss’s house
so he has no real reason he cant see me, he works in construction with his dad (not even part time just helps)
and he has no other job.

have you not been following my suggestions?

wops forgot to press the “anon” button…. whatever doesnt matter anymore i guess

In that case after all you just said I wouldn’t care to much if he was cheating or not cause it sure does not sound like he is into you at all….and if he is it’s not a serious relationship to him if he lives that close and you don’t hear from him…..! Oh and the age thing was if he was like 15 no d/l etc….but that is obviously not the case. Oh Well! Good Luck….I would e looking for a boyfriend who is interested enough to show it !

ihavenoname X3 wrote:
about 3 months we have been dating
im not going to give ages….. sorry
the only thing hes done to suggest cheating is not call/text/see me very often

and he doesnt really have a reason for that he lives about a block down the street from mine and bliss’s house
so he has no real reason he cant see me, he works in construction with his dad (not even part time just helps)
and he has no other job.

what’s that you were saying? 15 no d/l?

I wish you luck in all this! Just don’t let him have to much of your heart….be strong and enjoy time with your friends! Thanks for sharing more!

Talk about it with him, ask him and if it’s true leave him coz chances are he could cheat on you and break your heart and no girl deserves that.