house help: Synthetic weed AKA spice, So I move my girlfriend in my house 3 weeks ago and I knew she smoked synthetic weed or spice on occasion. - Help.com

you are absolutely right. she has to get herself in order

Nope. Get the heck from her and her addictions and you don’t need to raise a baby that isn’t yours anyway. Best thing you can do is run like hell….

sad thing about this is that there’s a child involve. it always suck when there’s a child involve. :(

She tried to spin things and make me the bad guy. Her arguments and accusations towards me showed me how far gone her mind actually is. I have been nothing but nice bailing her out of trouble, paying her fines and bills, clothing and feeding her child, Gave them a nice house to live in for free, in a nice area. Basically to me she cheated whether there was sex involved or not. My main concern is the kid though.
And I am running and scrambling to get her the hell out of here. My new neighbors already voiced concerns about the “traffic” to my house which is a dead end. coincidentally the “traffic” started the day after she moved in. This is why drugs are illegal and this synthetic pot is ten times stronger than the real thing and is highly addictive.

matter of fact take that baby from her

I could in fact get child services involved, she is moving in to an apartment with her mother and child. this is a positive move especially for the child.

positive move, but she is still gonna have that baby, how is the mother?

I feel that this woman’s mother will be good for the child (she is old school). The problem I see is that she is an enabler because she most likely wont call her daughter out on getting or being high. The other problem here is the drug user mentality. She has a network of other drug users she calls upon and hangs out with
they all use each other and use other people to get their needs met. I asked her what are you going to do keep introducing your child to more and more strange men until one of them messes with the kid?? This woman thinks nothing of just taking a strangers number and hanging out with them a few hours later with the child around.

had you kept her there a while longer you could have gotten custody of the child, for the child’s sake!

you need to tell the mother to stop enabling her. get her some help. as a matter of fact, get her dr. phil!

lmao that show intervention is what we need

Too funny it wouldn’t work she has the mentality of a fifteen year old and would counter any argument with some little flaw of the person questioning her. If that didn’t work she would raise her voice and change her tone to escalate it into a full blown screaming match. That didn’t work on me it made her mad.

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Too funny it wouldn’t work she has the mentality of a fifteen year old and would counter any argument with some little flaw of the person questioning her. If that didn’t work she would raise her voice and change her tone to escalate it into a full blown screaming match. That didn’t work on me it made her mad.

well, who knows being on national tv might’soften’ her a bit. that is if you do manage to get into the show in the first place :P

well feel good you did the right thing, let’s hope the mom does something, you should just go over there and check up on the baby sometimes and take it with you

I would love to take the child. the kid is so innocent and extremely intelligent. I asked the addict if she thought that her kid could tell if she was high? I said the kid notices everything else why would she not notice that you are clearly a bit off.
Now that she is moving she has no choice but to cut back or quit because she cant afford it and her mother wont have strange men at the house. She cant smoke real weed because of piss testing, she plans on resuming real weed after probation is done. In all of this she still hasn’t apologized to me. I should have known better with addicts the drugs are always 1st, people that don’t respect themselves will not respect me and lastly If a mother does not have enough love for her own child that motherly instinct or love she surely will never love me.

The downside of an apartment with her mother is now she will have a full time babysitter that will allow her to run around like an idiot with her circle of drug buddies. The synthetic weed has a really bad effect upon the lungs I give her a couple of years if she keeps it up.

i’ve never even heard of this synthetic weed. what is it exactly?

Basically scientists were experimenting with cannibinoids trying to reproduce the effects of the active drug in pot called thc. They came up with a few chemicals that did just that. Companies found out about this and started spraying natural herbs and grasses with a chemical mixture that included the synthetic thc like chemical. The dea banned several chemicals that were being used so the “incense people” just tweak the chemical formula just enough to keep selling it legally. I really do not think the stuff is thoroughly tested and the long term effects are unknown. the packaging is labeled “not for human consumption” that way if you eat ,smoke, or ingest the stuff it’s your own fault if something happens. There are numerous websites stating nightmare stories about it ranging from suicides ,psychosis, and a whole lot of emergency room visits.

o_O actually i think a friend told me about that some last year. well, you did the right thing

Nope, you are right.

I have to say it is impossible to have a relationship with a person on drugs because the drugs rule. This woman actually expects 100% blind trust from her boyfriend, she expects to do as she pleases and so long as no sex is involved it’s not cheating.
So in other words lying, keeping secrets, withholding information, not introducing me to the circle of friends, collecting phone numbers and new guys was suppose to be acceptable behavior in her book and I was just suppose to “trust” 100% Not Happening!

Laws vary from state to state on the legality of synthetic drugs. However, if she is getting high in the company of her child she is endangering her.This is considered abuse. If she is the primary caretaker of the child and is getting high than she is guilty of neglect. If your high, you can not properly protect and monitor the child. You need to contact protective services in reguards to this. It might not be popular with her but you are aware of the danger the child is being put in so, a level or responcibility falls to you. Also, what if she gets high and passes out or falls asleep and something happens to the child. If that happened you would regret not acting. I am not trying to call you out or preach to you but the child is innocent and needs decent people to look out for it’s best interest. If protective services is contacted and she is deemed unfit they would place the child with the other parent of immediate family first (if they are deemed fit that is). Just do what you already know is right. You want to act or else you would not be on here. You are hesitating because you know what this will do to your relation to her.

I broke our relationship off it’s over. As far as
Her child goes I believe that her grandmother
Will take good care of her and be a positive influence
Once they vacate my house I’m out of the picture for good.