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what do you think?

I’ve been seeing this guy for about a month. things are great. i really like him. sometimes i just don’t hear from him though… last night i had such a good time with him. i texted him, saying so earlier today, but i never heard back from him. it makes me feel uneasy.

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supergeek00 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (5 minutes after post)

relax take it eeeeeeeasy, for there is nothing that we can do

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Anonymous #
10 months ago (7 minutes after post)

shouldn’t text him again?

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Is he at work? Off work? 100 miles away? Three doors down and sitting on his couch? I think it depends upon what he is doing and where.

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Anonymous #
10 months ago (22 minutes after post)

i don’t really know!

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (25 minutes after post)

don’t let it bother you now - he probably is busy.

but if he starts constantly ignoring you, then end it with him.
from experience.

but right now, it’s fine, I bet.

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ENAMTHBert offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Nothing u have to worry about it

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Anonymous #
10 months ago (30 minutes after post)

just don’t contact him until i hear from him then?

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supergeek00 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (46 minutes after post)

reasons to contact him - you want to know what’s going on with him

reasons to not contact him - fear, bad experience of contacting someone perhaps

I don’t think there’s any reason to believe that contacting him will go badly wrong, so contact him

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IrAdler offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (2 hours, 6 minutes after post)

I might have come from an old school but to me it sounds like he just wants to have a good time and nothing more.

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mindhealer online Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 47 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

Some people don’t know that a response is required to any particular text. And if you do respond and they respond, then what? Are you supposed to drop everything and text for hours? It’s not clear unless you interact a lot with them or actually talk about it.

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mindhealer online Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 47 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (2 hours, 18 minutes after post)

I usually take a message as being a message unless there’s a question mark at the end, then I think it’s a message that wants a reply.

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Anonymous #
10 months ago (2 hours, 38 minutes after post)

i guess i thought that saying something like i had a great time with him would be something that he’d want to reply to. but whatever, i guess not.

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mindhealer online Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 47 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (2 hours, 50 minutes after post)

Could be, but I can easily see that as something someone might not choose to reply to. Like thank-you cards, nobody replies to those, they say a similar thing, it’s just a nice sentiment you communicated — not that I don’t see what you’re saying, just showing other perspective.

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