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Bad relations.

How is it, i wonder, that some people seem to just HAVE to live in bad relations?

Over and over again one can see this. The pattern in people that constantly repeats itself. Complains come following some bad break up and then they´re at it again. Crying in the dark, despair and the bringing down of others on behalf of ones own misery.

There are good things if one would choose to accept it. But no, why oh why would i want something that is good for me when i can have this new and glorious nightmare to keep myself miserable…

I think Carlin was spot on when he said he gave up on his species. It´s better to just observe and see what all the crazy people are doing. Cause one thing is for certain, they will not be bothered learning from mistakes or see things for what it is.

Exceptions are far in between. I do know they exist though. I have seen glimpses of it.

I wonder why it is so hard to admit that one is merely a human. How hard it is to put away the pride and admit that one does not have the big picture. It´s not going to happen any time soon i bet ya. Guess my plan of popping a beer and sit back to watch the ways of the world unfold is not that bad after all. I do feel bad though. I can´t really just sit idly by and do it. Though at times maybe one should just do that.

I also why people tend to be so mad when you point out the obvious they just can´t see. I know why of course, but the question is still very interesting to me.

Questions in all the behavioral mishaps comes regularly to me. And i sit in awe at times to see it all go down after the master plan.

Amazed i am. Amazed.

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 75 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I quote Carlin specifically on that all the time.

And you know what is great? He was happy, right until the end, he was a happy man. His comedy is filled with anger but his life was not. Because he knew the sacred truth of the cynic:

You have to be amused. You have to be open to the absurdity of this life and the people in it.

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I love his comedy, cause it´s true.

I´m overly amused at times. Though i do feel with my fellow earth dwellers as well.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (4 hours, 33 minutes after post)

Haha, the cynic in me is laughing so hard as well. Some people are just like that: if there is no drama in their lives, they’ll create one. When I was younger and very self-obsessed, I used to think that (to quote Anne Rice) “life is a tragedy one way or another”. Now that I’m older, I think life is one big comedy and I’d rather be the audience instead of being the actors in the play. I guess the only purpose of one’s existence is to be at peace with one’s own self.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (2 days, 16 hours after post)

Great piece, I completely fell you

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

You have some excellent points.
All that someone can answer to that is, we are humans. We feel absurd things, we say absurd things and we do absurd things.
That’s just who we are and how we were made. The sooner we accept it the sooner there’s change:D

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

lisalovesalic wrote:
You have some excellent points.
All that someone can answer to that is, we are humans. We feel absurd things, we say absurd things and we do absurd things.
That’s just who we are and how we were made. The sooner we accept it the sooner there’s change:D

I can say a lot about being human. And a lot about why things go down the way they do. When i do this people tend to be angry or scared. They don´t want the explanation. They want some fairytale or a pill to make it go away.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

Cause were HUMAN!:):P

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

lisalovesalic wrote:
Cause were HUMAN!:):P

So by your assessment i´m not human.

I can live with that.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

Lol. I never said but okay:P

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

Ain´t nothing wrong with it.

I feel that my species is superior anyway.. Too bad i seem to be the only one. Maybe they saw the flaws in me and left me off on a crowded rock with fuzzballs that could keep me company through my days. Or it might be a practical joke and they´re back to get me anytime soon..

Just need to have as good a time as one can while here i guess.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

YOLO:D

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