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My best friend is a child molestor.

He had been molesting 2 young girls for the past 4 years, since they where the ages of 11 and 13. We used to hang out together at college and he would head out to molest these girls. I thought he was a good guy. I could say i thougt of him as a brother. We where really close, best friends since the 6th grade and throughout high school. I didn’t think he could and would do such a horrible thing. I always thought of the child molester as a shadowy figure you never really knew. I never thought he would be the person i knew for so many years. What scares me most if these girls had’nt spoke out and told people. I would’ve had him around my future family. My children would know my best friend as their uncle. If he molested these girls would, would he have molested my future children as well? I don’t know what to do. Should i shun him? Should pretend that he doesn’t exist anymore? Or should i accept him where so many are turning him away? If my best friend, the person i spent 7 hours with everyday thorought the 6th through 12th grades, if he is a child molester, what does that make me? He’s in prison now. He made a deal and got four years in prison. I spoke to him through letters and he tells me that he wants to change. I don’t know if i should believe him. Child molesters are know to be cunning and maniplative. What should i do?

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Anonymous #
10 months ago (5 minutes after post)

a child molester shouldn’t be your best friend,shun him Immediately .

a child molester shouldn't be your best friend,shun him Immediately .

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An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
a child molester shouldn’t be your best friend,shun him Immediately .

thanks for your input. I was and im still angered by him.

[quote Anonymous]a child molester shouldn't be your best friend,shun him Immediately .[/quote] thanks for your input. I was and im still angered by him.

Help me with: i feel like i’m running out of hope.

Anonymous #
10 months ago (12 minutes after post)

j_sull_boss wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
a child molester shouldn’t be your best friend,shun him Immediately .

thanks for your input. I was and im still angered by him.

don’t call him and try to forget him,you know child molesters are wanted and child molestation is a crime.

[quote j_sull_boss][quote Anonymous]a child molester shouldn't be your best friend,shun him Immediately .[/quote] thanks for your input. I was and im still angered by him.[/quote] don't call him and try to forget him,you know child molesters are wanted and child molestation is a crime.

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