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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Well I guess I think you should probably go get help or see some sort of psychologist to sort out why you feel like you have to do this and maybe they can help you overcome your addiction to drama. The reason you should consider seeking help is because this addiction of yours will probably result in you being completely alienated and unhappy later on as people realize that it is in their best interest to stay away from you. When this happens, you won’t have people to manipulate and you’ll be miserable, so best go get our head examined I think.

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10 months ago (7 minutes after post)

nah, its not like i do it all the time or that i need to be some dramatic situation all the time to live.. its just a way to pass my time.

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Julfelrodmo offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (8 minutes after post)

and when it come to something more personal i dont couse the drama.. i just let it happen all by it self..

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I think figuring out why could be a great thing. It could free you.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (10 minutes after post)

ah i screwed up.. hahah ah i guess it doesn’t matter.

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Don’t worry about it :)

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Julfelrodmo offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (14 minutes after post)

i just find my life boring sometimes.. meaby the drama just lights up something, makes it more interesting somehow.

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (16 minutes after post)

It’s kind of mean though, do you feel bad at all about it?

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Julfelrodmo offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (21 minutes after post)

yea i know it’s mean,and i did feel bad. i wont be doing stuff like that again.. i think i like helping more than hurting. so yea.

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Well that’s nice.

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Julfelrodmo offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (28 minutes after post)

yea. i guess. but i just got to see my bad side haha but i think there still a lot to it… actually this is not that bad compared to thing I’ve done before..

bah but my good side always wins.. =D

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An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (29 minutes after post)

you sound like a messy queen, find something else to with your time, something else that makes you happy, something that doesn’t cause pain for others

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Cool! Seriously though, consider analyzing why you enjoy drama and emotional fights so much.

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Julfelrodmo offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (35 minutes after post)

Tsk.. haha ok I’ll try that.

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (35 minutes after post)

Sounds like you do what most people do but are actually aware of it.

I don’t really like to insert moral messages so this is hard for me to respond to. My gut reaction is your being kind’ve a ****. But in every group there is someone like you.

I guess all I’m thinking is, is that who you want to be? If yes, go for it. But when people figure out that drama is what you are about they are going to realize you are shallow and not a very nice friend to have.

Or maybe you’ll become queen of the roost. I’ve seen that happen too.

Either way I wouldn’t be friends with a person like the version of you that you described in that story.

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (40 minutes after post)

you sound like you like to live vicariously through other people. you want to experience all the extreme joys and fears of life, but you’re a bit of a coward. so you live it through other people. interesting.

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cero offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Julfelrodmo wrote:
yea i know it’s mean,and i did feel bad. i wont be doing stuff like that again.. i think i like helping more than hurting. so yea.

well then do that and find some pleasure out of it

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Julfelrodmo offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (44 minutes after post)

hahaha don’t worry its not like I’m like that all the time actually that was the first time i actually caused a situation like that. and i promised my self it would be the last so don’t worry I’m not that of a *****!.

a wild ozy appears wrote:
you sound like you like to live vicariously through other people. you want to experience all the extreme joys and fears of life, but you’re a bit of a coward. so you live it through other people. interesting.

And omg.. you make it sound as if im some sort of lifeless freak. hahaha but i guess you are right.. it was just a way to get to know the pain and exitment of love. hahaha. but i would’t say i try living my life like that…

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Julfelrodmo offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (44 minutes after post)

cero wrote:

Julfelrodmo wrote:
yea i know it’s mean,and i did feel bad. i wont be doing stuff like that again.. i think i like helping more than hurting. so yea.

well then do that and find some pleasure out of it

i don’t anymore..

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (48 minutes after post)

Julfelrodmo wrote:
hahaha don’t worry its not like I’m like that all the time actually that was the first time i actually caused a situation like that. and i promised my self it would be the last so don’t worry I’m not that of a *****!.

a wild ozy appears wrote:
you sound like you like to live vicariously through other people. you want to experience all the extreme joys and fears of life, but you’re a bit of a coward. so you live it through other people. interesting.

And omg.. you make it sound as if im some sort of lifeless freak. hahaha but i guess you are right.. it was just a way to get to know the pain and exitment of love. hahaha. but i would’t say i try living my life like that…

no? have you ever had a serious girlfriend?

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Julfelrodmo offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (50 minutes after post)

a wild ozy appears wrote:

Julfelrodmo wrote:
hahaha don’t worry its not like I’m like that all the time actually that was the first time i actually caused a situation like that. and i promised my self it would be the last so don’t worry I’m not that of a *****!.

a wild ozy appears wrote:
you sound like you like to live vicariously through other people. you want to experience all the extreme joys and fears of life, but you’re a bit of a coward. so you live it through other people. interesting.

And omg.. you make it sound as if im some sort of lifeless freak. hahaha but i guess you are right.. it was just a way to get to know the pain and exitment of love. hahaha. but i would’t say i try living my life like that…

no? have you ever had a serious girlfriend?

What does that even have to do with this… and yes i had relationships before.

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour after post)

He is gay, I don’t see how that has to do with this.

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

well, i mean, you’re the one who mentioned that you meddle in other people’s love affairs in order to experience the pain and excitement of love. that sounds either young or unexperienced.

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Julfelrodmo offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

a wild ozy appears wrote:
well, i mean, you’re the one who mentioned that you meddle in other people’s love affairs in order to experience the pain and excitement of love. that sounds either young or unexperienced.

I’d say both,i had relationships before but i never really had much excitement on them before. i did feel nice, but some drama would be nice once a while. just immature. haha i wanna feel the pain you know.

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Julfelrodmo offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
stop being a douche and writing so long posts. step number 1 to recovery.

you might be gay.

i am gay.. and sorry if the long post bothered you, but it’s not like you are obligated to read it.

Anonymous wrote:
Maybe, don’t be gay anymore?

And that Would probably solve nothing.

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

but you’re afraid to try it yourself. and you understand that’s the reason why living vicariously through other people will never be enough, right? even if you successfully broke someone’s heart you could never know how that could feel to your core until your experience it yourself. or the total jubilation of love, with the full experience of knowing that someone truly loves you, no matter how wicked, flawed, or strange you seem. are you in high school?

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An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

a wild ozy appears wrote:
but you’re afraid to try it yourself. and you understand that’s the reason why living vicariously through other people will never be enough, right? even if you successfully broke someone’s heart you could never know how that could feel to your core until your experience it yourself. or the total jubilation of love, with the full experience of knowing that someone truly loves you, no matter how wicked, flawed, or strange you seem. are you in high school?

Hahah, ah girl i think you actually get me. and well when all this happened i was. i just graduated…

well anyway do you think that’s bad? i mean do i have some sort of problem? or is it just the deep desire of living.

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

i don’t think the feeling is inherently bad. there is no shame in being fearful of being vulnerable. i myself believed until college that i was incapable of real romantic love, and that i could never experience the insanity of relationships in a meaningful way. perhaps you’re imaginative like me and thought of yourself as both a hero and a villain.

but you know when Bill tells the Bride in ‘Kill Bill’, “No. You’re not a bad person. You’re a terrific person. You’re my favorite person, but every once in a while, you can be a real c*nt.” … i imagine that’s what it will be like if someone ever caught up with you on your shenanigans. sometimes it’s worth it to be your own crash test dummy.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

a wild ozy appears wrote:
i don’t think the feeling is inherently bad. there is no shame in being fearful of being vulnerable. i myself believed until college that i was incapable of real romantic love, and that i could never experience the insanity of relationships in a meaningful way. perhaps you’re imaginative like me and thought of yourself as both a hero and a villain.

Wow.. That’s exactly how i feel..

a wild ozy appears wrote:
but you know when Bill tells the Bride in ‘Kill Bill’, “No. You’re not a bad person. You’re a terrific person. You’re my favorite person, but every once in a while, you can be a real c*nt.” … i imagine that’s what it will be like if someone ever caught up with you on your shenanigans. sometimes it’s worth it to be your own crash test dummy.

I like that quote.. and yea you are right.. Well Thank you! i already knew i was scared of it but somehow you made me feel better about it.

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

i think these feelings are something that everyone experiences to some degree, but sometimes there is something within us that strive to soar above normalcy. you want to break the mold but wonder if truly doing so will break yourself. you won’t. you can’t.

i shocked myself when i confessed to my future boyfriend my most damning and twisted secret, the secret that i used to troll help.com with, and he told me it didn’t matter. my idea of love and vulnerability was totally re-written, but it’s not something i ever could have known had i not witnessed it for myself.

nothing replaces true, visceral life. do not only make a veiled attempt to reach for it. or you will never know.

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Julfelrodmo offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (2 hours, 11 minutes after post)

I’ll give it a try, It really is just the fear of loving someone and the fear that it might hurt.. i probably just did that to see how it would be to be in a fight.

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10 months ago (6 hours, 34 minutes after post)

you have a twisted mind. you know who else had a twisted mind…

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An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (10 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Sounds kinda harsh in my opinion.
Somthing is seriously wrong with you dude.

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (13 hours, 33 minutes after post)

you are a bad person. people like you don’t deserve to have friends.

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (14 hours, 44 minutes after post)

I don’t understand you, but I agree with verge, you should seek help.

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (14 hours, 44 minutes after post)

I don’t mean this kind of help, but real world help. Outside of this computer screen.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (15 hours, 17 minutes after post)

Nah, you guys just treat everyone that post here like they have some sort of mental sickness.. I’m a just a ***** no big deal.

It’s not like i go around making peoples lives miserable for my own good. geez.. it was just once. And, I’m not that bad of a person anymore.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (17 hours, 45 minutes after post)

Those relations people and their lives and not a game ..

If you were not cause big harm in their relationships now the result is still and could harm their relationships in the future.
so you should tell them the truth and be brave And tell them the story .

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (18 hours after post)

No not at all but think you should go live in Oz land where they understand people like you! And Oz don’t take offense to that I thought your interaction with this OP was good..

Julfelrodmo wrote:
Nah, you guys just treat everyone that post here like they have some sort of mental sickness.. I’m a just a ***** no big deal.

It’s not like i go around making peoples lives miserable for my own good. geez.. it was just once. And, I’m not that bad of a person anymore.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (18 hours, 8 minutes after post)

What you don’t relize is people are aware of people like you and they will figure you out and when they do you will need to move onto other people you can mess with!

Myself I don’t take what you did lightly one bit….it’s people like you that have caused anguish where it is not deserved.

You obviously have your hang ups and I think Oz pointed them out very well to you. But you don’t care because you get a rush off Drama.

The more you expose your true self to those around you the quicker they will learn that there are kniving trouble makers out there that thrive off other’s suffering!

Thats why in the Gay circle guys like you are called Queens…I have many Gay friend and have listened to how they talk about Queens when they are not around. Thats why they call them Drama Queens!

Try getting your own life and leave others out of it! And it will be no great lose if you don’t because it only takes time and the word will get around then you won’t have to worry about causing Drama for others because you will be to busy dealing with you own!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (18 hours, 11 minutes after post)

ENAMTHBert wrote:
Those relations people and their lives and not a game ..

If you were not cause big harm in their relationships now the result is still and could harm their relationships in the future.
so you should tell them the truth and be brave And tell them the story .

No point.. they broke up because he had a relation with another girl at the same time. And she didn’t really cared much about him either. They were just playing they had a relationship. i knew all this crap so i saw no harm playing around with them.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (18 hours, 16 minutes after post)

nolateri wrote:
What you don’t relize is people are aware of people like you and they will figure you out and when they do you will need to move onto other people you can mess with!

Myself I don’t take what you did lightly one bit….it’s people like you that have caused anguish where it is not deserved.

You obviously have your hang ups and I think Oz pointed them out very well to you. But you don’t care because you get a rush off Drama.

The more you expose your true self to those around you the quicker they will learn that there are kniving trouble makers out there that thrive off other’s suffering!

Thats why in the Gay circle guys like you are called Queens…I have many Gay friend and have listened to how they talk about Queens when they are not around. Thats why they call them Drama Queens!

Try getting your own life and leave others out of it! And it will be no great lose if you don’t because it only takes time and the word will get around then you won’t have to worry about causing Drama for others because you will be to busy dealing with you own!

ok.. so i pointed out that it’s not my life doing this sort of things, i do like drama. but that was the only time i meddled into someone else relation. and i was just playing around a bit. i know it wasn’t right. it’s not like i go around destroying every relation that gets in my way just to get drama of it.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (18 hours, 22 minutes after post)

That is not what it sounds like in your post….it sounds like this was just one of your stories!

Example: Since you accidently showed your user name I will make a note of it and from this point forward won’t comment or pay attention to anything you have to say or post!

There it all starts here with the life being a Drama Queen…you get ignored.

Good Luck!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (18 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Julfelrodmo wrote:

ENAMTHBert wrote:
Those relations people and their lives and not a game ..

If you were not cause big harm in their relationships now the result is still and could harm their relationships in the future.
so you should tell them the truth and be brave And tell them the story .

No point.. they broke up because he had a relation with another girl at the same time. And she didn’t really cared much about him either. They were just playing they had a relationship. i knew all this crap so i saw no harm playing around with them.

Even thought you should tell them the story in good way .
so it will be part of you that you too have got rid of your problem and there problem
and clean it and Did not keep them with something you have.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (18 hours, 26 minutes after post)

you can close the post at the top if you don’t want to get any more replies.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (18 hours, 27 minutes after post)

Jullian-

Here is what you wrote in your profile of what kind of person you are:

What happened? Is the post you just wrote who Jullian really is or is what you put in your profile?

Will the real Jullian please stand up!

Hello, =D

Well My Name Is Julian Im 19 Years Old And i like helping people i really enjoy making someone feel better.. i have problems of my own and i’d like if you guys could help me..

About me… well im a easy going guy im very calm and gentle if you ever need a friendly hand dont you ever doubt asking me i will always be there for anyone..

i love music..writing and reading…i Dream Way to much meaby more than i should… Oh And im Gay =D Im Having a Little Rough Time With It,i’ve been accepted by my friends and everyone that knows( Alot Of people) but im just not strong enough to tell my family..it sacares the crap out of me…and meaby i haven’t accepted my self that much so yea.. thats my big problem right now..That all I Can say Right Now…
Thank you =D

Always Dreaming Beyond My Reality–Always Wondering How Or When But Never Saying It’s Impossible!

Where did you grow up?
Bogota

What hobbies are you into?
Reading, Writing

What causes are you concerned about today?
The World Being Oblivious to what respect means

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (18 hours, 29 minutes after post)

nolateri wrote:
Jullian-

Here is what you wrote in your profile of what kind of person you are:

What happened? Is the post you just wrote who Jullian really is or is what you put in your profile?

Will the real Jullian please stand up!

Hello, =D

Well My Name Is Julian Im 19 Years Old And i like helping people i really enjoy making someone feel better.. i have problems of my own and i’d like if you guys could help me..

About me… well im a easy going guy im very calm and gentle if you ever need a friendly hand dont you ever doubt asking me i will always be there for anyone..

i love music..writing and reading…i Dream Way to much meaby more than i should… Oh And im Gay =D Im Having a Little Rough Time With It,i’ve been accepted by my friends and everyone that knows( Alot Of people) but im just not strong enough to tell my family..it sacares the crap out of me…and meaby i haven’t accepted my self that much so yea.. thats my big problem right now..That all I Can say Right Now…
Thank you =D

Always Dreaming Beyond My Reality–Always Wondering How Or When But Never Saying It’s Impossible!

Where did you grow up?
Bogota

What hobbies are you into?
Reading, Writing

What causes are you concerned about today?
The World Being Oblivious to what respect means

Your Point? geez sorry if i had a dark moment..

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (18 hours, 31 minutes after post)

a wild ozy appears wrote:
you can close the post at the top if you don’t want to get any more replies.

Nah, i dont mind they are just saying what they think. i know my story makes me look like im some sort of sick *** hole. but i know im not. well i was but just that time.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (18 hours, 45 minutes after post)

It’s ok Julfelrodmo:

What you posted will upset people here and any where. Especially if they have had spmeone meddle in their personal life like you did to this couple!

Oz was awesome in how she dealt with your post because she was looking at why you do this. And that is really what we should be doing here.

But sometimes something hits home and it P******s people off. It has been the type of behaviour you described that has seriously hurt people in their lifes and relationships.

So when you talk about deliberatly hurting someone else and laughing about it! It’s not funny what so ever!

I have to hand this one to OZ because she was the only one I see here who was not rattled by what you posted and she actually was trying to help you!

As for me it makes me angry to hear what you say it feels like being the person who actually does this kind of stuff to others!

It makes me feel like having no compassion towards you in any of your post here……and now I’m going back and reading what you have posted in the past and comments you have made.

It’s like you have just given us a birds eye into the mind of a Meddler!

Kind of interesting to see what one is like out in the open! They present themselfs as a kind helping person that cares for others and want to help but really on the inside that is not who they really are at all!

Thanks for the insight!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (19 hours, 5 minutes after post)

nolateri wrote:
It’s ok Julfelrodmo:

What you posted will upset people here and any where. Especially if they have had spmeone meddle in their personal life like you did to this couple!

Oz was awesome in how she dealt with your post because she was looking at why you do this. And that is really what we should be doing here.

But sometimes something hits home and it P******s people off. It has been the type of behaviour you described that has seriously hurt people in their lifes and relationships.

So when you talk about deliberatly hurting someone else and laughing about it! It’s not funny what so ever!

I have to hand this one to OZ because she was the only one I see here who was not rattled by what you posted and she actually was trying to help you!

As for me it makes me angry to hear what you say it feels like being the person who actually does this kind of stuff to others!

It makes me feel like having no compassion towards you in any of your post here……and now I’m going back and reading what you have posted in the past and comments you have made.

It’s like you have just given us a birds eye into the mind of a Meddler!

Kind of interesting to see what one is like out in the open! They present themselfs as a kind helping person that cares for others and want to help but really on the inside that is not who they really are at all!

Thanks for the insight!

Hum, you really sound affected. And i guess it’s ok i don’t find anything you say offensive. Maybe you just don’t mean to be offensive, but i know that it was a huge mistake playing around with people like that. Which makes me feel bad.

Come on we all have our bad things my problem was that i let it out. as i said I’m not like that anymore. Yes, it was a huge mistake but i guess i did learn some stuff about myself doing it. Which I’m not very proud of.

and yea, The Julian You see in my profile info, It’s the real me. As i said i just had my dark moment.

Do you seriously even read My comments? cant you see I’m actually not that bad of an ***. Anyway, i guess that the things I’ve done can really get some people to hate me even if they don’t really know me.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (19 hours, 14 minutes after post)

We all have our moments and I sincerly hope this really was just a moment for you and you don’t do something like this again!

One day it will be done to you and you will see what it feels like……it is not cool at all!

I sincerly hope the person you described yourself to be on your profile really is who Jullian is inside.

I think you need to go to the two people you wrote about here and tell them what you did and apologize. It will show that you are a better person then this!

And if you are sincere no matter how they respond you will feel alot better about yourself!

Just know that peoples feelings are to be valued and repsected not toyed with!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (19 hours, 25 minutes after post)

nolateri wrote:
We all have our moments and I sincerly hope this really was just a moment for you and you don’t do something like this again!

One day it will be done to you and you will see what it feels like……it is not cool at all!

I sincerly hope the person you described yourself to be on your profile really is who Jullian is inside.

I think you need to go to the two people you wrote about here and tell them what you did and apologize. It will show that you are a better person then this!

And if you are sincere no matter how they respond you will feel alot better about yourself!

Just know that peoples feelings are to be valued and repsected not toyed with!

Yea, I’ll talk to them… i know I’m probably gonna get slapped or punched but i guess i deserve it… and seriously I’m not all that bad.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (19 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Julfelrodmo wrote:

a wild ozy appears wrote:
you can close the post at the top if you don’t want to get any more replies.

Nah, i dont mind they are just saying what they think. i know my story makes me look like im some sort of sick *** hole. but i know im not. well i was but just that time.

I dont throw balme on you or scold you
It is certain that your problem IT SNOT YOUR problem ONLY

SO there is no chances to blame you alone..
To be sure, there are reasons , It makes you feel

I see that the only the reason were more STRONGER than You >>
Problems of the people is one
(( Causes more powerful than you ))

and it could not be fair consider u as sick while there Fold Fold millions of people that have cases of psychological ..

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (19 hours, 53 minutes after post)

Honestly we all have thought about things that had we acted on we would have been out of character!

You just acted it out…….and I’m sure it gave you a feeling of control over a situation.

I’m sorry to have made such a point about your post and it was unfair for me to copy and post your profile. I do feel wrong about that now that I have calmed down a bit! lol

Think of the control this gave you to hurt someone then relize that you can also have the power and control to make someone feel really good.

I would rather feel good about making someone happy and feel good about them selfs then make them feel terrible.

Which is why I apologized to you because I did not have to run you in the ground like I did. And to be Honest it felt good because it was like I had you right there and could do to you what I wish I could have done to someone who has messed with me like you did to this couple.

So we are no differant we all have the power with in us to make people feel certain ways! Which is why the tounge is a very powerful tool!

Your Ok! lol…..And no sicker then the rest of us!

Oh if that guy ***** Slaps you buy him a Beer! On the House! lol

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (21 hours, 2 minutes after post)

nolateri wrote:
Honestly we all have thought about things that had we acted on we would have been out of character!

You just acted it out…….and I’m sure it gave you a feeling of control over a situation.

I’m sorry to have made such a point about your post and it was unfair for me to copy and post your profile. I do feel wrong about that now that I have calmed down a bit! lol

Think of the control this gave you to hurt someone then relize that you can also have the power and control to make someone feel really good.

I would rather feel good about making someone happy and feel good about them selfs then make them feel terrible.

Which is why I apologized to you because I did not have to run you in the ground like I did. And to be Honest it felt good because it was like I had you right there and could do to you what I wish I could have done to someone who has messed with me like you did to this couple.

So we are no differant we all have the power with in us to make people feel certain ways! Which is why the tounge is a very powerful tool!

Your Ok! lol…..And no sicker then the rest of us!

Oh if that guy ***** Slaps you buy him a Beer! On the House! lol

Yea, I totally felt that i could control the situation as i wanted. And that was something i really liked at that moment.

And, don’t worry about it, It’s ok. No hard feelings. =)

You just experienced what i did, just in a lower degree.. knowing you can influence on someone in anyway you want with just a single word or an action, takes you of your mind a bit.

It was nice talking to you :D. i really appreciate all the things you said. Thank You.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (21 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Thank You! And I’m glad we could communicate our feelings!

Julfelrodmo wrote:

nolateri wrote:
Honestly we all have thought about things that had we acted on we would have been out of character!

You just acted it out…….and I’m sure it gave you a feeling of control over a situation.

I’m sorry to have made such a point about your post and it was unfair for me to copy and post your profile. I do feel wrong about that now that I have calmed down a bit! lol

Think of the control this gave you to hurt someone then relize that you can also have the power and control to make someone feel really good.

I would rather feel good about making someone happy and feel good about them selfs then make them feel terrible.

Which is why I apologized to you because I did not have to run you in the ground like I did. And to be Honest it felt good because it was like I had you right there and could do to you what I wish I could have done to someone who has messed with me like you did to this couple.

So we are no differant we all have the power with in us to make people feel certain ways! Which is why the tounge is a very powerful tool!

Your Ok! lol…..And no sicker then the rest of us!

Oh if that guy ***** Slaps you buy him a Beer! On the House! lol

Yea, I totally felt that i could control the situation as i wanted. And that was something i really liked at that moment.

And, don’t worry about it, It’s ok. No hard feelings. =)

You just experienced what i did, just in a lower degree.. knowing you can influence on someone in anyway you want with just a single word or an action, takes you of your mind a bit.

It was nice talking to you :D. i really appreciate all the things you said. Thank You.

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Julfelrodmo offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (21 hours, 37 minutes after post)

haha, we ended up helping each other a bit. I guess posting this wasn’t a waste of time. :D

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nolateri offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (21 hours, 46 minutes after post)

Right! That’s cool when stuff like this happens!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day after post)

You might just like the adrenaline rush?

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I love Drama, And Emotional fights.

Btw im a guy.

haha, ok so, this might sound bitchy but i’m so bored,i’ll tell you a story.

ok, as i said i love drama, When i don’t have it in my personal life, i have this need to make it appear some how. So i do, It’s not Connected to me directly but still, i enjoy it, a lot.

So there was this time i wass soo bored so i had this guy friend, we were talking how hes relationship was so nice and blah blah. So i decided to talk to his girlfriend, a nice cup a coffe and that girl just told me all her life and she just spout everything. She told me how her ex was calling her and telling her that they should go back, she told me that she was thinking about the idea. And then it hit me i had the perfect opportunity for a nice dramatic fight. Something to make me smile a bit.

So after that i didn’t really wait cuz i didn’t want her to ruin my plan of self satisfaction. So that very night i took my friend to have some drink, and we just talked all night, i didn’t have much drinks, i was actually sober but my friend he was drunk!, so i said ok lets do it, i started acting and talking as if i was drunk. Which would come in handy after everything unleashed. and it did.

So, he started taking about how they seem to be the perfect couple, and haha it was so funny. anyway, i said “yea thats what you think, actually is what everyone thinks” and i laughed.. he frowned his eyebrows at me and said “Do you know something”.. and i told him how his girlfriend told me that she might actually leave him to go back with her ex, and he didn’t wasn’t really surprised, he told me that it wasn’t a big deal, “it’s not like she cheated on me” he said. At this point i was just thinking ” ****! This didn’t Work” then bah it just hit me.. so i started poisoning his mind, saying stuff like, ” dude if shes just going to leave you like that she just doesn’t love you. She probably never had” and that just worked perfectly.

So now i just got bored of all this writing so ill just keep it real short.

after that well they got into a huge fight, ah so dramatic, and for some reason they thought it was my obligation to be present in all the fight they had because of me. Which was great that was actually my goal get to live some nice drama and i wouldn’t get hurt. and really worked.

The girl didn’t say anything to me because i keep telling her that i was drunk, that it wasn’t intentionally, and my friend told her that i was probably more drunk than he was. which is false.

They didn’t broke up, Which made my plan just go perfect. i got my bit of drama and everyone was happy at the end. So no harm done.

hahaha how would you call that?? i mean, im bad right? well not bad just a meddler’?

but it was just this time although i really just didn’t do it cuz of the satisfaction it brought me, i did it for my friend as well i had the need to tell him. It’s not my fault that i would get to help him and get what i wanted at the same time.

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