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I’m seeing someone but I have a massive thing for someone else.

I’m 19 and male. I’m dating Person A. Got a second date tonight, we’ve kissed, it’s going nicely. Last year I got a massive crush on Person B, but the timing was awful. We hung out like twice, though nothing happened, and then she had to leave for uni.

Now, I was at a concert with Person B last night, and I once more have a massive crush on her. I can’t explain it, but I feel happier around her than I do around Person A. I was fairly flirty, and I think she was too, though I couldn’t read too much into it because she’s always flirty. I wanted to make a move, but unfortunately I have morals/ethics/whatever and don’t want to while I’m still dating Person A. More to the point, if I did make a move with Person B and it didn’t work out, I’d have to come clean to person A, which could mess up both relationships.

Should I:

A) Abandon my morals/ethics/whatever and make a move with Person B and see what happens, knowing that I’ll then have to come clean to Person A and stuff

B) Dump Person A and put my eggs in the Person B basket

C) Call up Person B, explain my dilemma, maybe taking the approach “my friend has a dilemma”, and try to get an objective “yes” or “rejection”

D) Make a sandwich and bury my head in the sand

E) Other: _____________

Something else I should mention, Person A is a girl I got off with in a club, Person B is in my close friends circle.

Cast your votes now. Peace peeps, and thank you.

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