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My divorce is now final and I have found out he went looking on help and facebook to see what he could find

He accused me of having a boyfriend, didn’t believe me when I told him there wasn’t one.
He killed our marriage and destroyed our family
Don’t understand what happened

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Dr. Jackson offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Jealousy and distrust can be very evil powers against a persons better judgement. It likely got the better of him. It’s over though, I’d suggest just moving on and not worrying about it.

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

You did nothing wrong. Some people are so obsessed with jealousy and possessiveness that they cannot see–or think–straight.

Forget about this guy, and when you date again in the future, make sure you key on any negative traits like jealousy, possessiveness or mistrust.

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 57 minutes after post)

Move on!
Don’t look back anymore.

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10 months, 3 weeks ago (8 hours, 53 minutes after post)

When you don’t know what went wrong or why, you can’t go on because you no longer trust anyone! the whole family is hurting and he is unhappy because things are not going as he planned. Our retirement money will all be gone so he is going to have to work till he dies and I will have nothing because of what he and the judge have done. This state allowed the divorce and put me in poverty as women in this state are property of their ex- husband as long as he gives her anything, no one can live on social security and my EX doesn’t care

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