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I’m very surprised & confused.I that day chatted with

a guy & we chatted for 3 hrs.He was flirting well with me & I knew he was only flirting.But he told me he will come to my country & meet me.I was so surprised with this words & wanted to see what’s next.Then he called me & we talked & then he told me to test him something then & I did.Then I asked him to text me something but he showed many reasons why he can’t text me.I didn’t understand why? All were lame excuses.And he told he will text me but didn’t.I am not unhappy why he didn’t text me but I’m totally confused & surprised & elses that why some one would do that? I mean flirting is okay,but texting & talking & telling I’ll come meet you? Can anyone explain this to me??? I just wanna know…why people are so different….please reply..thnx in advanced

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nsxhhcho offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Why bother? Hes a stranger. how’d you even find him.

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Anonymous #
9 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

I don’t bother but I want to know…

nsxhhcho wrote:
Why bother? Hes a stranger. how’d you even find him.

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nsxhhcho offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Cuz he was bored and he was just having fun? Messing around with you?

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Anonymous #
9 months, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Do you mean send pics? He might not want you to see how he looks…

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lnfunlife offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 27 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Do you mean send pics? He might not want you to see how he looks…

no pics was sent or received.But we could both see our pics on our profiles..

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nsxhhcho offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Maybe you wernt his type.

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lnfunlife offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 27 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

I’m not or was not interested in him either…but talking like that? Huh that sounds creepy people are out there.

Well that is my roommate asked me to continue chatting with him or she was going to do something with me…so may be there are many things elses in between them IDK.But I was really surprised that’s all…hahaha cause I remember that 3 hrs overload on me…for my best roommate…lol

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lnfunlife offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 27 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

nsxhhcho wrote:
Maybe you wernt his type.

Or may be he was just passing leisure time…But ridiculous way.

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nsxhhcho offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

There you go!!! You got your answer. Help.com is kinda pointless

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lnfunlife offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 27 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

nsxhhcho wrote:
There you go!!! You got your answer. Help.com is kinda pointless

What? What’s with help.com?

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nsxhhcho offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

i have no reply on my post.

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lnfunlife offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 27 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

nsxhhcho wrote:
i have no reply on my post.

It seems the post is being repeated there for 2nd time.So,that may be a reason of not having replies.Were you not satisfied with the replies last time?

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Siren offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 37 minutes after post)

he wanted a visa for your country

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 53 minutes after post)

It’s impossible to read minds ^^ Only possible to observe actions. So if I don’t know why someone is doing something, I only pay attention to what they are doing.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 53 minutes after post)

“Actions speak louder than words.”

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