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text him!

How can someone you know nothing about be awesome to you?

And maybe he has a wife or fiance who thinks he’s awesome, too . . . or used to!

I wouldn’t text him. Wait and see if he texts u. Guys.. Most don’t like being chased.

we skyped, are friends on fb and have been texting.. im not worried abt that. and thats what i though.. i dont want to seem desperate or needy.. i dont want to push it, but we were making plans to meet up at a mutual place and thats when he stopped responding.. i mean he could have just gotten busy.. but idk

Anonymous wrote:
we skyped, are friends on fb and have been texting.. im not worried abt that. and thats what i though.. i dont want to seem desperate or needy.. i dont want to push it, but we were making plans to meet up at a mutual place and thats when he stopped responding.. i mean he could have just gotten busy.. but idk

in this circumstance, it’s best to wait and see if he texts you.
that way youll know hes serious.

chev.jame wrote:
How can someone you know nothing about be awesome to you?

exactly, i met a guy online who i thought was totally awesome. the only totally awesome thing about him was how amazingly good a liar and fake he was

Siren wrote:

chev.jame wrote:
How can someone you know nothing about be awesome to you?

exactly, i met a guy online who i thought was totally awesome. the only totally awesome thing about him was how amazingly good a liar and fake he was

im not going to compare my guy to yours, that would be rediculous theyre two completely different people.

Two completely different people from the exact same situation, where the person interested in the guy knew very little about them.
She’s not saying these two guys are the same, she’s saying that you have no way of knowing because you don’t know much about him.

well thats where im asking for the help.. i want to get to know him.. so d i message him or wait for him to message me?

Guys generally take the initiative. And if they don’t… They’re normally a bit strange, heh.
I’d personally leave it up to him to respond and move on with making other friends. ^^ It’s much easier to date someone who is already your friend, and it’s overall pretty nice to have a lot of good friends.

Just because one guy was fake means nothing. Online dating is fine as long as u keep safe by telling a mate where u are. Never going somewhere alone with them at first just public places. And test their “no” response. Ive met some great ppl and great friends. Even in real life. Ppl can be bad. I really wouldnt text him. Yet. And if you do keep interested but show him theirs healthy competition most…. The time that can help. You have to play it cool. If u do insist on messaging him.tell him uve missed your chats ;) and see what his responde
Is but dont reply straight away. Leave it two hours so hes kinda forced to think about you. But i dont know him ando everyones different. Thats worked for me in the past but might not